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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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No @FloatingFeather. I’ve literally got no one today. It’s my own fault. If I wasn’t so horrible maybe I would.

It’s certainly a really rocky road @hanami @creative_writer. At this stage I feel like it’s one step forward and two steps back. I know I can do it I just have to trust myself through this first.

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I’ve had enough. I just want it to all go away

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Hey @Captain24 I'm here with you. Did you want to chat about anything?

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Hi @Captain24

Sorry you didn't feel that you could go to work today, but it is great that you put YOU first.

I think it would be hard to find a person who hasn't taken time off from work for their mental health. It shows just how much you value you.

I am now up to 6 years of time off work, but I know that if I didn't put my mental health first then I wouldn't be here today.

It certainly is hard at times to think that we have anyone in our corner, but you have us here. Maybe not straight away but we are here for you through the good and bad times.

Your words "I know I can do it I just have to trust myself through this first" shows just how much strength, courage and hope you have within yourself. I look at you in admiration @Captain24. I see a person that although struggles, gets up everyday and shows just how much strength you portray. Keep being you, keep striving for life, keep us just in awe of how much perseverance you have.

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Wow @Snowie. Thank you.

I don’t see it that way. I see myself as a failure.

But I really appreciate what you have said. It’s what I needed to hear today.

Im really glad that you are starting to be ok!

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Hi @amber22

How was your day?

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Hey @Captain24 My day is going okay today, very rainy outside. How is your day?

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@Captain24

We barely see it that way within ourselves. It is so easy to see it in other people yet so hard to see it within ourselves.

You don't have to thank me, I think there are a lot of people on here and in your life that see you like that.

I hope the rest of the night goes well for you.

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Send the rain my way @amber22! We have a really large bushfire 50kms from town.

My day has been really tough.

@Snowie‘s comments have helped though. I hope you have a good night @Snowie. One night closer to getting home

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Sorry to hear about the bushfire @Captain24 I hope you get rain soon and it helps with them.

We have had really nice weather here today. I think it is meant to last for a few more days yet.

Three more sleeps to go. Feel like a little kid waiting for their birthday party!!!

I'm glad my comments helped, but please remember that you are the one dealing with it and going through it. That strength comes from within.

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