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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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That’s my problem, the drinking! @MissGremlin but I need to sort out this sleep thing. So I need to get it all sorted and together. He is looking into my blood results to see if there is anything in there making me so tired all the time.

Ok if he said then that’s up to you to decide what you want to do. Did he say to drop it slowly?

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@Captain24 hopefully we can both remember not to eat or drink anything so we can do our blood tests. I'm glad your doctor is being thorough and checking everything.

No he didn't, he said i could reduce the amount or stop taking it. I did google it and it said to not stop taking it suddenly for people that use it for high blood pressure but for nightmares it said that stopping it suddenly could cause them to come back instantly. But it's not helping with the nightmares anyway.

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Hopefully. @MissGremlin. I have out a water bottle in front of my drinks.

I guess it’s your call in how to do it. It’s a tough one though.

I’ve just had a shower and put my nose strip on. Breathing through my nose is funny. It’s cold and feels weird. It has opened up my nostrils a lot! Maybe I’ll wake up refreshed!

I hope sleep finds you tonight.

Thinking if you

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@Captain24 I won't drink anything more now until I usually have my morning coffee, but I'll try to remember not to.

It is a tough one, I've chosen not to take it tonight so I guess we'll see.

Haha it being cold and feeling weird 😂. Really hoping it helps you to get a good sleep and the you wake up feeling refreshed.

Night night sweetheart, lots of love and hugs to you ❤️.

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Hi @Captain24,

It did go well, thank you 😊 How have you been going?

And of course, you’re welcome to ask me

No worries at all, just send it through when you’re ready, and I’ll get back to you when I can 😊

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Hi @MissGremlin,

Thanks for sending the pic of Casper, he looks so cute with the glasses on 😆

How are you today? 💛

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Hello @Nala2022, hehe you're welcome ☺️.

I've had 9 hours and 4 minutes of sleep which is unheard of for me. I'm still feeling very sleepy though and my head is pounding. I want to have a cuppa but I'm meant to be having a blood test and I need to fast for it.

How are you doing sweet?

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I’m glad you got a decent amount of sleep, but it sucks that you’ve woken up still feeling sleepy and with a pounding headache ☹️ @MissGremlin

Are you going to get your blood test done as soon as they open? I hope it goes well for you then you can enjoy a nice hot cuppa

I’m not too bad, just tired. A bit sore too, I must have slept funny because I woke up with a sore neck/shoulder, but other than that I’m good 😊

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@Nala2022 my body was completely exhausted with everything that's been going on here.

That's the plan, they open at 7.30am. Tummy is feeling icky today though which is making me anxious.

Oh sleeping funny is never nice, hoping your neck/shoulder settles during the day sweet. Glad that you're good otherwise though ❤️

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I can only imagine @MissGremlin, you’ve been going through a lot lately 💛

Aw, I’m sorry to hear that your tummy is feeling icky too ☹️ Hopefully it settles soon

Thank you lovely. I might need to make an appointment with the osteo this week if my neck and shoulder don’t ease up

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