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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor16 June 2022, 9:48 pm AEST

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor25 July 2026, 8:36 pm AEST

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@Captain24 it's been doing it for a few days now. I keep getting logged out at times aswell. Starting to feel like it's cos I'm not wanted here.

I've only just done the first row of sections.

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Captain24Senior Contributor25 July 2026, 8:45 pm AEST

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Log it with IT @MissGremlin. Maybe @AuntGlow can help.

I know it’s easy to say but it’s not because you aren’t wanted as you really are wanted and needed but I get it feels like that.

I haven’t done this one in sections. It’s all over the place but I’m almost finished 2/3 of it.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor25 July 2026, 8:49 pm AEST

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@Captain24 I did comment on a thread about it the other day but I just don't have the energy to log it with the feedback section, last time I tried i couldn't even send it through.

I try to tell myself otherwise but it's hard, especially with the way things are feeling at the moment (I'm safe).

You're getting there with it. I wonder how long the custom ones are going to take me to do 😂.

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Captain24Senior Contributor25 July 2026, 8:59 pm AEST

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It is hard especially when you are thinking that nobody cares anyway @MissGremlin. Funny what you said though, I just got logged out!

It could take a little while. It’s so worth it in the end though. Mine take probably about 10/12 weeks. But I don’t always have the time to do it.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor25 July 2026, 9:01 pm AEST

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@Captain24 oops I jinxed it 😂.

They might take a while but they are truly worth the wait.

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AuntGlowModerator25 July 2026, 9:05 pm AEST

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oooh! I am not sure why the system is logging you out, I am so sorry! @MissGremlin @Captain24

I will pass this on for you tonight. 🥰

PS: Of course we want you here! The system is just being very silly. 😤

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor25 July 2026, 9:08 pm AEST

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@AuntGlow it's not just logging me out. I'm having issues posting aswell and sometimes tags are taking almost 2 minutes to load, posts trying to go through for like 3-4 minutes then not going through and losing everything I've written.

It's hard when all I really need right now is connection. Those feelings of rejection are hitting hard at the moment (I'm safe). I'm sorry.

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Captain24Senior Contributor25 July 2026, 9:15 pm AEST

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How are you going @MissGremlin ?

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor25 July 2026, 9:21 pm AEST

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@Captain24 honestly I'm really struggling. I've been sitting here trying to do my diamond art but the thoughts/urges just aren't stopping, I still haven't been able to calm down from earlier and breathing is hard. I don't know why it's all hit so hard tonight, not having a reason as to why just makes it all that more frustrating.

I'm safe for now, still trying to do my diamond art and Casper is next to me.

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Captain24Senior Contributor25 July 2026, 9:22 pm AEST

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Hey @AuntGlow.

I really need to go to bed. It’s late for me. But you mind to look out for @MissGremlin for me please? Her issues with not being able to post are upsetting her and she has had a rough day already.

Im really sorry that I need to go to bed and am unable to keep helping.

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