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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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And that's okay if you do not know @Captain24 - sitting with not knowing is uncomfortable, but it is also okay. It allows us to sit with curiosity. To be 'curious' about situations, look from different perspectives, and not necessarily having to come up with an answer.

This helped me through my roughest times. It was hard, but once I understood the concept of sitting with the unknown and sitting with curiosity, it helped a lot.

I'm planning to go for a little walk later. Have you been out with Pixie today yet? It's a lovely day on my side.

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I feel like the more I try to sit the worse it’s getting @tyme but I guess it’s only until Thursday when is see the psychiatrist. Hopefully she can help sort it out.

I’ve been a slack Pixie mum. I haven’t taken her anywhere but she has loved laying on the bed with me.

It’s a nice day here too it’s finally reached 22 degrees the average for this time of year is 30. Maybe I should take her for a walk around my place tonight. It’ll get us both out of the house and I won’t have to worry about a shower as I won’t see anyone! Lol

Its nice that you finally get a nice day.

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I've just told my niece I'm going to take her for a bike ride and she was happy with that @Captain24 . I really need to get out more.

I hope you also get to take Pix on a walk.

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A bike ride with her sounds like fun @tyme. Do you have a park or something nearby?

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Yes, I have a park at the end of my street. We generally ride all around the block @Captain24 . As unco as she is, I'm surprised she picked up riding without training wheels a matter of moments. I'm thinking maybe because she moved straight from a balance bike to 2-wheels?

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I’ve seen kids on those balance bikes and didn’t think they made any sense. Maybe they do? @tyme. I had an old fashioned trike when I was a kid. Except they were old fashioned at the time ! Lol

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My sister's kids zoomed everywhere on those balance bikes. They were soooo fast on them! @Captain24 - supposedly that is what helps them move to a 2 wheeled bike...i don't know because i never had a balance bike

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The amount of kids in them there won’t be any need for training wheels anymore! @tyme

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Lol... no training wheels, nor peddles! @Captain24 .

When I first saw a balance bike, I'm thinking "What's the point of walking on your bike!?!?"

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Hey @Captain24 , I'm hopping off the forums now. Going for the bike ride I promised my niece. I'll catch up with you tomorrow evening or so?

Please take care. One step at a time.

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