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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Mum just doesn’t get it. @AlwaysMyself. She doesn’t u der stand the need for it or that it is life saving.

My psych is all private so there is no bull-billing. I pay the lot. I have told her the reason in my email and I think she will be really concerned. I don’t actually have any good friends like that. No one knows what’s going on for me anyway.

Im just sitting on the lounge watching tv. Jett on my lap so I’m hoping she will eventually come out. I’m doing my best to try and stay awake. It’s hard though. It’s going to be a really long night watching her.

I need her to come out.

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I'm glad you have Jett on your lap, and can watch TV or nap whilst waiting for Pix @Captain24 . Lets hope she gets jealous of the pats/cuddles that Jett gets??

My male dog often only wants something if my female dog has it. So if I want him to eat a carrot, I first give it to the female dog. Then he will try to take it off her, and I'll give her a second one lol.

Where as my female dog sometime won't come over for a pat, but if I give my male dog a pat, she will come over and barge in to get a pat 😅.

Dog psychology!

I'm going to have to head off, but I will be thinking of you as I go to sleep. Take care of yourself too, and then you can also take care of both your dogs too. 🤗

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She doesn’t get jealous @AlwaysMyself.

Im not planning on sleeping tonight., I don’t want to miss anything with Pix.

My care doesn’t matter, it’s all about Pix.

I hope you get some good sleep

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@Captain24 that's ok sweet, you've had alot going on. Just do your best to take them next time, you matter too sweet ❤️.

That's tough, are you able to lure her out with a bit of food if she'll come for it?

James Patterson is a good author. I used to read so much as a kid but then just stopped and now I can't comprehend things.

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It’s all about Pix and I really don’t matter @MissGremlin. Maybe I’ll remember to take them tomorrow night.

Food isn’t working for her. I’ve even tried telling her I’ll give her a treat. That’s not working either!

I stopped reading about 10+ years ago. I have tried to read in the last 2 years but just can’t seem to focus on it. I have to keep rereading what I have already read.

How’s Casper doing?

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@Captain24 just try to remember that if you don't look after yourself then it's going to be harder to look after Pix.

I'm sorry that nothing is working to get her out, I imagine that's frustrating and stressful cos you just want to be able to help her.

That's the same as me but it doesn't matter how many times i listen to it i just can't comprehend it. It's why I tend to listen to books that there's movies of cos then I at least know the main storyline.

Casper is doing well and was just casually chewing on my thumb, he's a bit of a weirdo lol

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Pix use to chewing on my finger or mums depending on where she was. It was like a comfort thing. She would do it to go to sleep but would wake up if you took it out of her mouth. @MissGremlin It was a bit cute. She doesn’t do it now, she slowly grew out of it. It was like a dummy to her. She also would just do it if she was laying with you. I miss that. It was like a connection thing.

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@Captain24 hehe awww that's so cute. They really do some funny and cute things.

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Pix also chucks tantrums! @MissGremlin. If you are ignoring here and she wants a pat she through herself around. Like having a fit. She will do it until you give her some attention.

Jett really doesn’t have much other then when I’m eating, I sit in the lounge to eat, he sits in the back of the lounge with his paws in my shoulder and head close to my fork following it as it goes in my mouth!

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@Captain24 haha Pix throwing tantrums, honestly they are like toddlers sometimes 😂. They really do have such unique personalities.

Awww Jett, Casper used to do this when he was little but he's a bit big to sit on the back of the lounge now although he still tries sometimes 😂.

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