I can’t cope

Hello @Flutterbug9 my sweet, thankyou for tagging me into this thread and I will have a read through when I hop into bed tonight.

I've been thinking about you but I respect when people need space, just know I'm only ever a tag away if you ever want or need to chat.

I hope you can get a good night's sleep and enjoy snuggles with your cats. Sending you lots of love and hugs, always here for you ❤️.

Thank you for sharing your story with me. @Flutterbug9 I'll have a look through and connect with you some more when I've done so.

Today's been a long day. I can relate.

Hi @Flutterbug9

I am glad that you felt comfortable to share. I did read and listen to it all. I don’t really have much to say as I don’t have the capacity. Please don’t think of this as being dismissive.

It sounds like it has been a real struggle for you. I also think people feel like others experiences are worse, but in my eyes our experiences are our experiences and there is no better or worse than others. It’s how our experiences have shaped up and what they have done to help or hinder our lives.

Im going and may come back in the new year. Not sure.

Good luck with everything.

Atm I’m going to stay on the forums, not as often as I have been.

@Captain24 If you return to the forums at some point, please feel to tag me if you like.

I will miss our Lego and brick related chats etc.

understand your decision to take a complete break from the forums.

sending love to you. Lots of pats to Pix and Jett

Sending hugs @NightFury @MissGremlin

I’ll be on the forums at times, don’t know when and how often.
Lots of things hurting this year due to missing people. My aunt was born early November, 37yo when she died from MS. My uncle died in start of December 3 years earlier, he was 45yo.

living each day, don’t know what I’m living for though.

Im safe

@Flutterbug9 oh sweetheart, I'm sorry to hear about your aunt and uncle. I know how hard it is to lose loved ones and when those dates are upon us it hurts so much. Just know that you are always welcome here, whether you want to talk or to just know that you're not alone ❤️.

I hear you sweet, i too am living each day but I'm not sure why either (I'm safe).

Hugs beautiful, you are loved and cared for here ❤️

I understand what it's like to miss people @Flutterbug9 I've lost a lot of important people in my life and this year, only four months ago, I lost my Grandad.

This time of the year is incredibly difficult, particularly when grief comes into play too. You're not alone.

I probably won’t tag anyone @Flutterbug9.

I’ll just pop in here if it’s ok or not too busy? Don't want to upset anyone or get in the way.

Pix and Jett are getting a lot of love. They have been with me in bed all day and I just gave them a bone for a treat so they are loving me too.

Good luck with everything.

signing off.

I know all 3 of you have painful memories of people no longer with us this time of year. @Flutterbug9 @NightFury @MissGremlin . I wish i could take away the pain, so that the positive memories of them could remain in a less painful way. But i will do what i can - sit here with ypu, acknowledge the loss, and be open to letting you talk about them if that is helpful.

I will join you all also in the club of "living each day, but not sure why". Welcome to join me on my hunt to find a reason over this coming year. We can all find different reasons for ourselves, but i know we can all support each other through it and celebrate the small wins in life along the way.

@NightFury @MissGremlin

with everything in my past I usually only briefly mention things. Usually don’t open up and go into details like I did in post I originally only tagged @AlwaysMyself in as part of chat we were having

sorry to hear about the loss of your Grandad @NightFury

hoping you have memories of good times spent with him.

1st, 2nd and 3rd January are anniversary days for me. Some years I’m ok and other years I’m emotional mess.

thinking of you @Cuddlebear