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I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Yeah, the delivery part makes it hheapppppps easier. I wouldn't bother otherwise. Sometimes I feel bad because I'm not an invalid, and I CAN go and get it... but then again, if the service it there., just take it.

Anyway, I have to wrap up so I have time to finish some other stuff off. Thanks for the company tonight. Please take care and rest up @Captain24

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Thanks for tonight @tyme

Ive enjoyed learning more about you

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It does make sense - it's a very 'Aussie' way of being, isn't it? @Captain24

What kind of work do you imagine could be more supportive?

I get the sense you're very good at your job, but can become hard on yourself when you're not at your best?

YAY for medication that works. 🥹

Family trips can be tricky like that... what can you do to care for yourself if there are some challenges while you're away?

HAHAH that is so fair. It was very vibey music, not too chaotic.

I am completing a grad cert in counselling so I can do my masters in psychotherapy! ✨

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At this stage the mine only has 7-10 years of life left. So I’ll just stick it out, plus no where else pays the same and I have to think of my mortgage. @AuntGlow

I am very critical of myself but then when others say if it makes me ‘know’ that I’m really useless.

I needed my meds today. The trip here was horrible. We had so much road works that we had to sit at red lights for. Pix gets really bad carsickness and it took us an hour and 45 minutes to the first stop which is an hour and 20 away! Then more road works before the next stop and then heaps of traffic at the bridge we cross. Never seen traffic like it there before. But I’m really proud of Pix she made it the whole way including it taking us well over an hour extra without being sick!

Challenges will be interesting. I’m minding setting my focus on the beach and the me time. But it is supposed to be raining all day tomorrow so maybe I won’t get my beach time. I do need to find something to do though. It’s hard to go off on my own though as they think we should all be together and then they make me feel guilty if I go somewhere without them. They guilt trip and belittle me A LOT. But they are my parents so I just have to do as I’m told.

Your username makes me think you are older and I forget that when you say stuff, like the electronic music festival, that you are really young.

That sounds good. I hope it easy enough for you. What exactly is psychotherapy? Is that the same as a psychologist?

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Ahhh look at that cutie @Captain24! What a happy dog on the beach

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It’s her happy place @Ru-bee

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Isn't it just the best seeing your pets happy @Captain24 It always makes me to happy when I take Toby to the off-lead park where he can run and be all silly

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It is good. She just smiled the whole time @Ru-bee

Jett actually walked in the water which was a surprise but tomorrow I’m taking his lead that’s 15 metres long so he can run wild with mums dog.

Thanks for responding to me. I appreciate it.

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Of course, always happy to chat with you @Captain24 🙂

Oooh 15m lead sounds like fun! I got to test out an 8m one at the park the other day - I met this lovely woman who also has cavvies like my Toby and she let me borrow her retractable lead so Toby could run after her off-lead dog. He had so much fun now I want to buy a long lead!

What a brave boy Jett is! I'm guessing the beach isn't usually his happy place like it is for Pix?

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