FORUMS

Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

  • 47,612Members
  • 1,358,869Posts
  • 1,400,000Visitors
Something’s not right

I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

29326 replies

19,521 - 19,530 of 29,326

In response to: I can’t cope

Re: I can’t cope

Essentially. I get full pay for my regular shift but only one hour overtime. However from midnight it’s triple time as it’s a public holiday here. You say it so much better than me! That’s the asd and over explaining…

That's good that you can basically do whatever you want. It’s your choice.

I don’t blame you for just wanting the older two. I feel like she would ruin it and they need time on their own too. I’m sure the firecracker takes a lot of focus off them. What’s ’the farm’?

I work tomorrow night so I won’t be around but if you do message me I’ll get it in the morning and respond.

Are you back to regular hours now?

In response to: Re: I can’t cope

Re: I can’t cope

The firecracker just always needs the toilet and if she doesn't get what she wants, she'll sprawl herself on the ground and scream and scream and scream and scream!!! @Captain24 She needs to go to school so school can 'fix' her lol.

Triple time sounds amazing! We had our Grand Final footy public holiday already, so we don't get a public holiday on Monday.

I won't be going back to regular hours. I'm going to be here there an everywhere. It's week by week for now. It depends on what needs doing. So somedays, I just hop on to 'see' people on the forums.

There's going to be some changes to sane (as always). 🙂

In response to: Re: I can’t cope

Re: I can’t cope

She’s going to get a rude shock at school! @tyme. It must be so hard for you all.

It’s pretty good. I like it when we get the whole day though not just half! We don’t seem to get rostered for many of the public holidays. However we do get Easter a reasonable amount.

I need routine so I wouldn’t cope with that. 😜 but I guess it’s just your working time whether it’s with us or behind the scenes. I do like it when you pop in though.

More changes.. 😢 Does that mean we lose you? The changes make me really anxious. I’ve noticed that the changes support SANE but not always the members. But I guess we are just a small part of the big picture.

In response to: Re: I can’t cope

Re: I can’t cope

 

I think this is me right now @tyme?

In response to: Re: I can’t cope

Re: I can’t cope

My days/times have turned on it's head recently so it's all different. Days and nights; nights and days. So even when I'm not working, I like to pop in, like on Mondays, Tuesdays, Saturdays. So I don't have set times anymore.

Actually, I can't say much about the changes because I don't know what they are! It's a surprise in waiting lol. But I certainly hear the anxiety it can cause.

I'll let you know if anything changes. But for now.. the forums remain as they are. @Captain24

I'm not here to cause any unneccessary stress.

Stay tuned 🙂

I'll let you know how the zoo goes tomorrow. Fingers crossed my sister doesn't cave and bring the fire cracker.

In response to: Re: I can’t cope

Re: I can’t cope

Just saw the pic you posted. In a way, it seems like we all have those tendencies at some time or another! It's just the level at which we have them! And you know what? It's totally okay. There is no right or wrong.

You are what you are, and you are perfectly imperfect 🙂 @Captain24

In response to: Re: I can’t cope

Re: I can’t cope

That sounds fair. I do like it when you do pop in though @tyme. I’m sure I’m not the only one. I like when you’re my accountability buddy. It helps me get shit done as you are in my head waiting to see if I’ve done it!

I have anxiety just being on here anyway so it doesn’t matter. You have t caused any unnecessary concern. It’s ok! You sound excited though. I’m happy for you.

I hope the zoo goes well and it’s just the two older ones. Let me know how it goes and I’ll respond Saturday morning. If you pop in on Saturday it’ll be there

In response to: Re: I can’t cope

Re: I can’t cope

I think i've learnt over time that change is going to happen whether we like it or not. We have the choice to embrace it or the choice to avoid it. Avoiding it limits your opportunities, but embracing it opens them up.

I stepped into SANE knowing that CHANGE is inevitable ALL THE TIME. So really, everything that is happening meets my expectations.

I'll be honest though that anxious thoughts around the uncertainty is very natural.

I feel that once again, self- talk is key @Captain24

In time, I'd like to do some research around self-talk. Rest up!

See you when I see you tomorrow or the weekend.

In response to: Re: I can’t cope

Re: I can’t cope


@Captain24 wrote:

 

I think this is me right now @tyme?


Great infographic @Captain24 imma YOINK that one hehe

Hope work goes okay tonight 💜

In response to: Re: I can’t cope

Re: I can’t cope

Hey @Jynx

I feel like I am all of those right now.

Im just getting ready. I even had breakfast which was big. But it was weetbix with condensed milk so it was appealing!

Hope you have a good night

19,521 - 19,530 of 29,326