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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’d like to just chat but you will be too busy. @AuntGlow. So it doesn’t matter.

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AuntGlowModerator

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It's okay, I am here. @Captain24 ☺️

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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How did the move go ? @AuntGlow

It’s really windy here right now and lots of traffic. There’s hardly any traffic in my estate and my bedroom is at the back of the house!

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AuntGlowModerator

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Good actually! I was able to get it all done in one day because I helped the movers. 💪 @Captain24

Gah, I get how that would be a little uncomfortable... is there anything on the TV that tickles your fancy?

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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It’s good that it’s done. Now to settle in @AuntGlow.

There is nothing on tv. I know I get board at home but at least I have company. I’m really tired tonight though. Like really really tired!! Maybe that would be a good idea.

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AuntGlowModerator

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Yes - and to get a fridge! (Let me know if you have some affordable recommendations). @Captain24

Maybe getting some rest is exactly what you need so you can be engaged and immersed in your explorations tomorrow? I am excited to hear more about your time with your friend too. 🥳

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I don’t know a lot about fridges. I just got one that fitted the space and matched my appliances! @AuntGlow. It wasn’t cheap though. My recommendation is white though.. the stainless steel shows all the marks!

I might just go to sleep. As much as I’m so excited to see her tomorrow I know all day with someone will be a lot and I have to do it the next day too.

After my Roo incident I suffer with anxiety while driving now. So a 5 hour drive was a lot of anxiety!

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AuntGlowModerator

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Ah, I see! I like the scandi vibe for furnishing and appliances, so white would work well! @Captain24

I understand that. A balance is important, especially when our energy needs to be with others for long periods.

Oh, that is so fair, I am sure that was really scary for you... and a long drive must take so much focus.

I really hope tomorrow is fun for you, I will be back at 2 and will check-in then. 💛

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’ve had a really good day. We chatted for hours and just stood watching the water. I’m so tired now though.

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AuntGlowModerator

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Aw, I am so glad to hear that you've had a good day @Captain24 🥰

Feeling tired is perfectly understandable, I would be too.

What will you do tonight?

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