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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor16 June 2022, 9:48 pm AEST

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Captain24Senior Contributor09 June 2025, 8:57 pm AEST

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That I’ll be ok @AuntGlow. That I can do this

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AuntGlowModerator09 June 2025, 9:01 pm AEST

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If it's any consolation, I see proof of you being able to get through big feelings every day, so I KNOW you can do this. However, it would be good for you to really know too... so what is one piece of evidence you have that shows your mind that you will be okay tonight? @Captain24

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Captain24Senior Contributor09 June 2025, 9:13 pm AEST

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This I don’t know @AuntGlow Maybe that the little black shit just gave me the cutest cuddle.

I really can’t leave them. They really do need me don’t they?

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tymeModerator09 June 2025, 9:24 pm AEST

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Awww... cutie @Captain24

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Captain24Senior Contributor09 June 2025, 9:26 pm AEST

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He can be @tyme

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tymeModerator09 June 2025, 9:28 pm AEST

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LOL @Captain24

Just like kids!

They sending your blood pressure soaring, but when they are asleep, you just wanna eat them!

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Captain24Senior Contributor09 June 2025, 9:30 pm AEST

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He is really cute in the mornings. @tyme. He sleeps next to me and when it starts to get cold around 5 he comes under the covers and curls up.

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tymeModerator09 June 2025, 9:35 pm AEST

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Nice! He can be your hot water bottle!

@Captain24

When my niece sleeps with me, she's my hot water bottle...

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AuntGlowModerator09 June 2025, 9:37 pm AEST

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@Captain24 hahahaha I really wish I could meet this dog; he sounds like the sassiest queen. 💅

Yes, they do need you.

And also, we want you here too. 😘

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Captain24Senior Contributor09 June 2025, 9:39 pm AEST

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It’s really uncomfortable actually. He gets under my armpit!!! @tyme. But he is warm and cute. Pix sleeps at my feet or on the floor on my spare pillows and dirty clothes.

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