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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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I’m about to go to the beach to walk the dogs, I think. Wouldn’t know with these two. @Jynx

Can we go through that chore stuff tomorrow night? Please? It’s a bit hard at the moment.

That poly stuff sounds interesting. I’ll read the info tonight when I’m back at the house.

Of course I’ll share what I do. It’ll probably be pretty crap but at least I will have tried

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@Captain24 yes of course we can! And thank you for expressing a healthy boundary to me about it. Good on you 😁

I hope the walk is super lovely!! I probs won't see you again till tomorrow then, as I finish at 5!!

Yeah let me know what you think about the poly stuff! It also happens to be one of my special interests so I will chew your ear off about it if you let me 😉

Doesn't matter if it's crap, babes! It's all about the process! I hope it's okay if I quote you here @StanD but what you spoke about in your post this morning might really resonate with our dear Cap!! This was what I found so inspiring:

I held the charcoal pencil & stared at blank page saying to myself, I don't know how to draw, I don't know what to do with charcoal. And then a voice said, do anything, there are no mistakes, you don't have to post it. And I think I give myself freedom.


I hope it resonates with you too hun. Can't wait to see it.

Have a chill arvo, enjoy the sun n sand, and I'll chat to you tomorrow - just tag me to remind me if you wanna talk chore stuff! 💜

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wanted to pop in and say hi @Captain24 @Snowie what are you both up to tonight?

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Hi @rav3n

Not up to a lot tonight. Have spent the day washing, cleaning and cooking but have actually enjoyed it.

I hope tonight is ok for you. Anything planned?

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oh yay! glad the cleaning/cooking was enjoyable for you @Snowie

speaking of cleaning, i have a massive pile of clothes to re-organise and put away tonight... been putting it off for days 😬 not looking forward to it but i know once i start, i'll probably enjoy it too.

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I don't really like the cleaning whilst I'm doing it @rav3n but the satisfaction afterwards feels good.

I like cooking. I find it helps my MH too. It's a good distraction and at the same time I get to make different things that the family like. Today was a big pan full of fried rice and some chicken pad thai, all put into containers and put in the fridge/freezer. Then when I can't be bothered cooking or I'm not home, there are meals for hubby and the kids.

I hope you get your clothes all put away tonight. At least they are already clean!

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fried rice and chicken pad thai sounds soooo good, making me hungry just thinking about it 😋 @Snowie

i really want to get into cooking, i save recipes from instagram but never end up trying any. where do you tend to get your cooking inspo / recipes from?

the satisfaction after cleaning is the best, planning to reward myself by lighting a lil candle if i get it done 🕯

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Hi @rav3n

Ive just been out to dinner, not long got back.

Im planning a hot shower and wash my hair. The wind has been terrible and my hair is full of salt and sand, I haven’t even gone swimming.

I need some aloe Vera gel as well. I’m a little burnt from all my bush walking.

How are you?

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hope the dinner was nice! @Captain24

ahh yep! hate the feeling of salt and sand in my hair too, so uncomfy. and sunburn too yikes, hope you get that aloe vera soon!! i saw some pictures from the beach - looked so beautiful!! are you into photography?

i've been well, just been procrastinating cleaning my room. it's a massive clutter of clothes everywhere from my bed to my desk 😅 hoping to get it cleaned tonight so i can feel refreshed

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I get my recipes from lots of different places @rav3n

I get some from on line and some from cook books. Some I have just been cooking for so long that they are just stored in my brain. I also have some of my grandma's cookbooks that I use. There are some recipes that she used to make when I was young, that I now make for my kids.

I am lucky that my kids, even when young, have always been happy to try anything I cook. Hubby will just eat whatever I put in front of him!!

I hope you get all your cleaning/putting away done tonight.

Hi @Captain24

I love your photos, they look so peaceful. I'm glad you are enjoying the walking, the dogs must be liking it too.

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