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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor16 June 2022, 9:48 pm AEST

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Captain24Senior Contributor07 Sept 2024, 8:18 pm AEST

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I’m just going to go to bed in the hope that everything I’ll be better when I wake up. I’m suppose to walk every morning but I just don’t think I can tomorrow but I don’t want to get into trouble. @Jynx

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JynxModerator07 Sept 2024, 9:00 pm AEST

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@Captain24 bed is sometimes the best answer hey hun. And you don't need to make that decision until the morning! When you wake up you might find yourself with more energy than you thought. Never know!

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SnowieSenior Contributor08 Sept 2024, 1:26 pm AEST

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Afternoon @Captain24

Even though I don't say much I am following along hon.

Hoping today is going ok and you got out for some fresh air and sunshine.

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Captain24Senior Contributor08 Sept 2024, 6:23 pm AEST

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Thanks @Snowie. It was pretty cool her today, I was going to go to the beach but I didn’t feel safe enough. I should have told a nurse how I felt but I just hid in my room.

I get its hard for you and I appreciate it

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tymeModerator08 Sept 2024, 6:27 pm AEST

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Hey @Captain24 🙂

Good to see you.

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Captain24Senior Contributor08 Sept 2024, 6:32 pm AEST

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Hi @tyme

Happy birthday but I don’t think you do birthdays.

How did you go with all the kids?

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tymeModerator08 Sept 2024, 6:37 pm AEST

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The ones from Sydney were great. The eldest here was a horror. She is STARTING to de-escalate now, but she's too HORRIBLE.

I was getting furious with her. Just kept answering back.

Anyway, the kids were great together. They had a lot of fun. The prob is that Vic holidays doesn't align with NSW school holidays so they can't meet each other during most school holidays. We are going there in January I guess. @Captain24

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tymeModerator08 Sept 2024, 6:43 pm AEST

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Oh yeah, and you're right. I don't do birthdays @Captain24

It's not that I CAN'T (not allowed) have a birthday, I just can't be bothered.

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Captain24Senior Contributor08 Sept 2024, 6:50 pm AEST

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I’m glad they all where good with each other @tyme. I’m sure you enjoyed it. You are having a lot of trouble with her aren’t you. How old is she, I’m thinking 9? Is she like it with her mother too?

It’s hard when the holidays don’t work so they can’t get together but at least you all spend January together.

I wasn’t sure whether it was a personal choice or a belief not to do birthdays

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SnowieSenior Contributor08 Sept 2024, 6:50 pm AEST

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Sometimes we just need to write the day off @Captain24 and try again tomorrow.

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