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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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All I’m doing is crying.. I’m feeling so sad and despondent.

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Hugs for ya @Captain24 🫂🫂

Pls don't forget to stay hydrated when teary! I'm here with you if you'd like to chat, deary 💜

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Please @Jynx

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@Captain24 course! 💜

How are your little floof balls? Haven't spoken to you about em for ages!!

Oh which reminds me, I did share this in the Ice-Memery so you might've already seen it, but it reminded me of you and your wee hounds!!

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Well.. the littlest one had a bone and I touched him so he bit me! @Jynx. Then on Saturday we were both on the lounge. I turned around and his bone got

me in the eye, a couple of hours at the hospital yesterday and he scratched my cornea.

Pixie is my favourite right now! She is just annoying me not hurting me!!

Jett gets out of lockdown on Thursday. Rehab vet Friday for the last time and then he is done. Except for his walking routine to keep increasing for better strength.

Hows your fluff balls

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@Captain24 oh yowza!! That would've hurt!! Eye injuries always make me really anxious 😳 Are you healing up okay, do you need to wear an eyepatch or anything?

I am totally like you haha I don't have a favourite, but I will favour whichever fuzzy gremlin is being the least difficult 🤣

Oh yay for Jett!! Graduation hehe. That's awesome!!

My ickle fuzzballs are doing well!! Razz has become soooo cuddly lately, she even comes and stands on my lap now! Never settles in for cuddles on lap haha but will curl up in a ball on the spare couch seat, and make little chirps whenever she demands scritches!

Ooh and I did their flea treatment again recently, not sure if I showed you last time? I got them shirts to prevent them licking flea treatment off each other 🤣

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I have to put eye drops in 4 times a day. @Jynx. I woke up this morning and my eye had sealed shut. I had to pry it open!

Jetts being all sweet now. He must have read what I wrote! lol. There’s no way that you could have a favourite. They are special in their own special way. I do say Pix is the sweet one and Jett is the arsehole though!

I’ve got a week and a bit with home out of lockdown before I go away. This time in 2 weeks I’ll be there.

Thats good that Razz is getting cuddly. Cats aren’t overly cuddly are they?

Love the shirts. Love that they are actual shirts! You are one of a kind aren’t you!! That’s said with love. ❤️

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It’s my own fault that I feel like shit. That I’m really struggling. Now I’m reading more into stuff than what is there.

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@Captain24 oh lawd, so apparently my brain has made a connection between the word 'pry' being closely associated with crowbars... so it just decided that when you said you had to pry your eye open, you must've used a crowbar to do it!! Ridiculous mental image, I love it 🤣

Yeah absolutely! Like Trixie is my favourite Trixie and Razz is my favourite Razz! And they have distinct personalities too but maybe not quite 'cuddler and asshole'... Hmmm I reckon Trixie is a lil princess, and Razz is known as Flopmeister General (because she'll walk up near me, then just FWUMP flop down and curl her wee head under, with her paws held bent in front - gosh I gotta try to get a picture, cos it just kills me how cute it is. Razz is more like a master manipulator, in terms of leveraging her cuteness for extra treats!

Oh wow, two weeks! Hopefully it flies by eh? Excited for you!

Cats are very cuddly! Well, not all cats obviously, but it depends on how they're raised. Trixie is VERY cuddly for instance, cos she went into foster care for first few months of her life and they were really good - instant cuddler! As opposed to Razz who got no foster care, and who was under the influence of her feral mother for too long (I took too long to decide to keep her lol) - the mother's instinct was to run away from humans, so Razz got a bit of that too, meaning it's been a lot more work to get her used to being handled.

But Trixie is soooo affectionate, it's bonkers! Her fav cuddle position is to get scooped into my arms and held like a baby, legs all splayed and her front paws all tucked up! She'll sit there for like an hour!! Cats are definitely more... hmmm aloof, might be the word? - than dogs, I think purely because dogs are pack animals and cats are solitary hunters. It's not that they're not cuddly, they just display affection differently!

The love is felt!! Thanks hun, that makes me happy 💜

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I’ve done some stupid stuff in my time but I don’t think I’ll try the crowbar with my eye @Jynx

Jett is also really sweet, he had this butter wouldn’t melt in his mouth look. You’d never know what an arse he is if you didn’t live it!

Pix and Jett both have awesome personalities but polar opposites!

That’s so cute. I never thought cats were cuddly for some reason. I hold pix like a baby too and she will sleep like it but she gets too heavy after a while.

The way they are raised makes a difference to the dogs too. But I do think some of the nature comes with the breed.

Can we please catch up tomorrow please? My mind is playing awful tricks on me. I’m trying to not listen but it’s getting too hard. I’ve got to get through until Friday yet.

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