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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Sometimes you need a good cry @Captain24 I'm glad Pix is there with you

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I’ve just dragged myself to bed @Ru-bee. I’m going to lay here with Pix and just cry.

Thank you

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Now I have to drag myself out and feed the dogs. I just don’t have it.

I haven’t feel this emotionally and mentally drained for a long time

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Ach can be so hard hey @Captain24 when you gotta prioritise them, even though you're bone-tired.

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I don’t even know what has caused it @Jynx. I know that I’ve had a couple of big emotional days but surely it should have me ending up like this.

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@Captain24 Hmm, I mean it makes sense to me! Big emotions take a LOT of energy out of us. I always feel pretty low energy for a few days after a big emotional time.

You got some time off now or are you back to work tomorrow?

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But this drained? @Jynx I feel like I haven’t slept in days. At the same time I know that it was probably close to the most emotional time I’ve had.

One bonus is that they are fed.

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@Captain24 I mean maybe? There's always other factors at play too, like how much we've eaten, whether we were sleeping well before, whether there's other things creating fatigue (including big emotions!)... I find that when I'm feeling crappy, if the cause isn't directly apparent, it can sometimes just stress me out even more to try to figure out the 'why'. Always better to focus on the what - what can I do about it?> What do I need? What can I change? What is my next step? Etc.

I'm about to jump off, but @tyme should be around shortly! Hopefully I will see you for PGC tomorrow! May rest find you swiftly tonight 💜

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Thanks @Jynx.

Ive got nothing and thinking why is too draining.

I think I’ll just go back to bed and cry. It’s not cry due to sadness it’s cry due to extreme exhaustion.

I’ll try and be on the chat.

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Hey @Captain24 ,

I'm sorry to hear you are feeling this way.

I have a question for you and will be sending you an email shortly.

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