Dear @Bunniekins
Hugs.
I know its complicated and there are ripple effects. It might be wisest to go for a long taper ... than just go off them. Not sure which family members are 'involved' in wanting you to be on meds or why... when my ex was coming off his ... he used to say that a lot of family members wanted people on meds so that they would not have to worry about them ... in my family nobody wanted anybody on meds.
I agree with @TideisTurning post.
In the mental health act there appears to be a value of prescribing
... the least amount necessary ...
Its a huge issue.
My approach in last 3 years has been to lower my own meds very gradually. I have tested my pdoc and he agrees. I think the push needs to come from you, but be patient, over time convince your 'team' that you are determined. I am not sure what other therapies or supports you actually have. I have only ever viewed meds as part of the treatment, but mainly focussed on psychotherapy, good nutrition, and research and meditation and self awareness.
Take Care Apple