FORUMS

Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

  • 47,612Members
  • 1,358,869Posts
  • 1,400,000Visitors
Our stories

It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

With the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras 2022 festival opening tomorrow, we thought it would be the perfect time to again welcome a discussion about all things LGBTQIA+.

So to hold the banner high and celebrate diversity and inclusion, we’re kicking things off with our own Mardi Gras celebration! Starting today and concluding with the Mardi Gras parade on the 5th March, this 3 week celebration will highlight moments of struggle, honour achievements, celebrate what it means for us to be LGBTQIA+, and also provide a safe place to land for those who may be questioning or struggling with their identity.

Message to our SANE LGBTQIA+ allies; you’re welcome to celebrate with us! Please feel free to don your best party outfit and contribute to this thread in whichever way feels right for you – we’re stronger together and as a community 🧑‍🎤👩🏾‍🎤

Building a community that’s safe and inclusive for all is one of the foundations of the SANE forums, and part of that commitment is ensuring that within this space our LGBTQIA+ members feel not only safe, but at home. So if there is anything you’d like to explore across the next 3 weeks, please feel free to reach out with your suggestions, either here or by sending an email to teams@sane.org.au and we’ll do our best to ensure your amazing ideas are incorporated in the celebration 🌈

Some of you might be wondering, what does LGBTQIA+ stand for? These initials refer collectively to people who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, asexual and their allies. It’s also important to acknowledge that these terms expand beyond a label, and that everyone comes to the umbrella definition with their own sense of what identity means to them and where (or indeed if) these terms are representative of their identity.

One of our awesome moderators @Jynx has previously put this list of terms together which might be helpful in understanding some of the colourful and diverse spectrum of identity:

  • Cisgender: Identifying with gender assigned at birth
  • Transgender: Identifying with a gender other than the one assigned at birth
  • Gender diverse: Umbrella term used to describe anyone who identifies outside of the gender binary (i.e. male or female) and includes nonbinary, gender fluid, agender, and others
  • Asexual: Someone who does not experience sexual attraction to others
  • Grey-Asexual: Someone who only experiences sexual attraction occasionally
  • Aromantic: Someone who does not experience romantic attraction to others
  • Intersex: Someone born with a reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn't seem to fit the typical definitions of female or male

And if you’d like to read the a previous Topic Tuesday thread on LGBTQIA+ & Mental Health check it out here.

To get the celebration and story sharing started, we’d love to put two questions out to the community:

Where/how/when do you experience joy, happiness, or euphoria related to your LGBTQIA+ identity?

AND

In light of the debate that took place in parliament and around the nation over the past few weeks related to transgender and LGBTQIA+ students (link to the powerful speech by MP Stephen Jones here), if anyone has been struggling with painful emotions the proposed bill may have elicited, please feel free to share your story here with the community – this space is for you


Tagging forum members, as well as peer support workers, who may identify as being an ally or LGBTQIA+:

@TheVorticon @petrichor @Former-Member @wellwellwellnez @Clawde @TideisTurning @Former-Member @Former-Member @cloudcore @Paperdaisy @Daisydreamer @Corny @NatureLover @outlander @Oaktree @SJT63 @Shaz51 @frog @Maggie @Fluttershy1 @Adge @Rebel @eth @Jynx @Schitzo @Former-Member @tyme @Former-Member @RiverSeal @Former-Member @Former-Member @Bunniekins @MDT @Former-Member @rivergal @Appleblossom

As always, let’s keep this space safe, inclusive and kind, and if any of the topics covered here cause any distress and you’d like to chat with someone, please call the SANE help centre on 1800 187 263 (Mon-Fri 10am-10PM EST), the crisis support numbers here or Qlife on 1800 184 527 (3pm till midnight everyday).

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

50 replies

21 - 30 of 50

In response to: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Hi @eth,

Thanks for sharing your and your family's stories about different gender experiences!

I have some links that you might find interesting and I thought I would share them with you. They describe gender terms and language that may help affirm gender identity and understanding of individual experiences.

Healthline Gender Terms

Transhub - Gender language

I hope you find these a useful resource for affirming gender!

RiverSeal 😊

In response to: Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Brilliant links @RiverSeal, thank you for sharing 🌈

In response to: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Thank you @Paperdaisy for being a lovely person and ally 🌈

Hi @eth

I’ll post a picture how I imagine the ‘spectrum’. I have a couple of ‘labels’ that I loosely identify with, but I don’t like the idea of labels whether it’s for gender, sexuality, mental health… when I started seeing that I won’t and don’t want to fit in a box I started feeling more free even if I feel lonely because I don’t ‘belong’ to a group.

 

In response to: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Hi @Former-Member

it is so nice to hear that you’re feeling support and that you can be you. It must have been so hard 30 years ago but I’m glad you took that brace step back then to be yourself despite the difficulties. Thank you 💚

In response to: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Thank you @Former-Member for creating this space, it's good to see everyone here 😊

I also thought I might tag some people from the LBGTIQA+ Social Space who may not have seen this thread yet 🌈 @Corny @Smittenkitten @NatureLover @Adge @Schitzo @outlander @Clawde

@petrichor I'm so happy for you that you're able to be on testosterone and are feeling the positive benefits of that 💗 And I agree the religious discrimination bill debate was awful to have to go through. In the end I actually became quite emotional seeing the conviction and vocal support of various politicians/allies in the process. I couldn't have imagined seeing that kind of support across political parties for trans people 20, 10, or even 5 years ago to be honest. I think society is slowly but surely moving in a better direction

@eth that's amazing that you've published written works debunking stigma about the community! I'm grateful 💗

As for me, to answer the initial question, I experience comfort in my non-binary identity typically when I'm around other trans people, or anyone who can comfortably use my pronouns and see me for who I truly am. I experience comfort, safety, and joy in my queerness when I'm in LGBTIAQ+ community events or spaces, surrounded by others like me. I experience euphoria when I'm wearing clothes that I feel the most "me" in, where I feel really confident and happy with how I look- usually involving androgyny and expressing my own personality, too.

About the progress pride flag (above)

In response to: Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

@petrichor your image of 'the spectrum' is stunning! What a fantastic concept.

In response to: Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Happy Friday to all those following/dancing along with our Mardi Gras celebration!

As we shimmy into the second week of our amazingly spangly and ever so sparkly celebration we thought we'd celebrate your favourite moments in LGBTQIA+ pop culture 💃🏻

Think iconic moments such as George and his guitar (and Aviators, hair, boots, leather argh!) ...

Think Jules in Euphoria...

Think Villanelle and Eve in Killing Eve...

This week we're all about the diversity and queerness on our screens, in our ears, on our pages and across the media landscape!

We'd love to hear your fave moments in LGBTQIA+ pop culture – it might a favourite tv show you're binging right now, a song that brings out your inner diva, or a moment in media that changed your thinking, moved you or made you proud to be LGBTQIA+ or an ally 🌈

Drop your iconic moments below!

And if you're looking to catch up on some LGBTQIA+ viewing during Mardi Gras, Rolling Stone have a great list of programs right over here

@NatureLover@Former-Member@petrichor@RiverSeal@cloudcore@Daisydreamer@Shaz51@Former-Member@Paperdaisy@tyme@Former-Member@TideisTurning@wellwellwellnez@Former-Member@Appleblossom@Former-Member@eth@greenspace@RedHorse@Adge@Former-Member@TheVorticon@Clawde@Corny@Smittenkitten@outlander@maddison

In response to: Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Karma Chameleon- Culture Club 🎶 ❤️

In response to: Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Oh indeed, @Former-Member !

Shall we add this to your festive wish list this year?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YB6ZaWS5x14

In response to: Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Re: It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

Hahahaha yes please!! 😍 will be grooving to this song throughout the day.. 🎶

21 - 30 of 50