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It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

It's the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras & SANE is celebrating all things LGBTQIA+

With the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras 2022 festival opening tomorrow, we thought it would be the perfect time to again welcome a discussion about all things LGBTQIA+.

So to hold the banner high and celebrate diversity and inclusion, we’re kicking things off with our own Mardi Gras celebration! Starting today and concluding with the Mardi Gras parade on the 5th March, this 3 week celebration will highlight moments of struggle, honour achievements, celebrate what it means for us to be LGBTQIA+, and also provide a safe place to land for those who may be questioning or struggling with their identity.

Message to our SANE LGBTQIA+ allies; you’re welcome to celebrate with us! Please feel free to don your best party outfit and contribute to this thread in whichever way feels right for you – we’re stronger together and as a community 🧑‍🎤👩🏾‍🎤

Building a community that’s safe and inclusive for all is one of the foundations of the SANE forums, and part of that commitment is ensuring that within this space our LGBTQIA+ members feel not only safe, but at home. So if there is anything you’d like to explore across the next 3 weeks, please feel free to reach out with your suggestions, either here or by sending an email to teams@sane.org.au and we’ll do our best to ensure your amazing ideas are incorporated in the celebration 🌈

Some of you might be wondering, what does LGBTQIA+ stand for? These initials refer collectively to people who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, asexual and their allies. It’s also important to acknowledge that these terms expand beyond a label, and that everyone comes to the umbrella definition with their own sense of what identity means to them and where (or indeed if) these terms are representative of their identity.

One of our awesome moderators @Jynx has previously put this list of terms together which might be helpful in understanding some of the colourful and diverse spectrum of identity:

  • Cisgender: Identifying with gender assigned at birth
  • Transgender: Identifying with a gender other than the one assigned at birth
  • Gender diverse: Umbrella term used to describe anyone who identifies outside of the gender binary (i.e. male or female) and includes nonbinary, gender fluid, agender, and others
  • Asexual: Someone who does not experience sexual attraction to others
  • Grey-Asexual: Someone who only experiences sexual attraction occasionally
  • Aromantic: Someone who does not experience romantic attraction to others
  • Intersex: Someone born with a reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn't seem to fit the typical definitions of female or male

And if you’d like to read the a previous Topic Tuesday thread on LGBTQIA+ & Mental Health check it out here.

To get the celebration and story sharing started, we’d love to put two questions out to the community:

Where/how/when do you experience joy, happiness, or euphoria related to your LGBTQIA+ identity?

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In light of the debate that took place in parliament and around the nation over the past few weeks related to transgender and LGBTQIA+ students (link to the powerful speech by MP Stephen Jones here), if anyone has been struggling with painful emotions the proposed bill may have elicited, please feel free to share your story here with the community – this space is for you


Tagging forum members, as well as peer support workers, who may identify as being an ally or LGBTQIA+:

@TheVorticon @petrichor @Former-Member @wellwellwellnez @Clawde @TideisTurning @Former-Member @Former-Member @cloudcore @Paperdaisy @Daisydreamer @Corny @NatureLover @outlander @Oaktree @SJT63 @Shaz51 @frog @Maggie @Fluttershy1 @Adge @Rebel @eth @Jynx @Schitzo @Former-Member @tyme @Former-Member @RiverSeal @Former-Member @Former-Member @Bunniekins @MDT @Former-Member @rivergal @Appleblossom

As always, let’s keep this space safe, inclusive and kind, and if any of the topics covered here cause any distress and you’d like to chat with someone, please call the SANE help centre on 1800 187 263 (Mon-Fri 10am-10PM EST), the crisis support numbers here or Qlife on 1800 184 527 (3pm till midnight everyday).

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Thanks @Daisydreamer great find, great over view 👍

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@eth wrote:

(me) - a person who gets to know someone and falls in love with who they are, their mind and personality and then if the friendship is deep it may become intimate physically - regardless of gender id. ❤️ Love this @eth


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I hope everyone is having a great week and enjoying the Mardi Gras!

Just wanted to share a survey for people who are TGD and want to share their experience with body compassion. It's through the University of Tasmania and is open to anyone aged 18+ who is transgender, nonbinary, genderfluid or any other gender diverse identity is welcome to participate in this project. It was promoted through Genderqueer Australia

Link: Body compassion survey

Have a great day!

RiverSeal 🙂

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@eth sincere apologies for not having included pansexual in the list. Having been in the LGBTQIA+ community for 30 years, I am still learning, and I wouldn't have it any other way! Thank you so much for sharing your story here with us. Writing on the topic must feel quite cathartic and empowering I imagine, and celebrating the joy of seeing your child liberated from their dysphoria right along with you!

PS– I love the term "queer peer", has such a nifty little ring to it 😉

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The recent discussion about the religious discrimination bill has made me very upset. The coverage in the media and the comments from people I know on social media have been crushing. It makes the thought of coming out trans even more impossible. I also wonder what the plebiscite for same sex marriage was for and sad that we need a religious discrimination bill to protect our religious friends. It makes me sad that we need discrimination laws and it makes me sad that we can’t have just a single one to protect our freedom, whether we are lgbt+, religious, men, women, blacks, whites m, every colour of the rainbow. Makes me sad to the core. Really sad.


@petrichor so beautifully said 💙It makes me sad too to think that there are people, both young and old, for whom it makes not only coming out as trans incredibly difficult, but also as a consequence struggling to find inner acceptance because of the fears and misunderstandings of others. It's heartbreaking and I stand with you. Thank you for so bravely sharing your story here with us. I hope that you feel heard and supported within this community 🌈

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Thanks to all those who've contributed by sharing your story or supporting the celebration!

@RiverSeal @Paperdaisy @Clawde @Daisydreamer @eth @Former-Member @petrichor @TheVorticon @greenspace @RedHorse @Shaz51 @TideisTurning @Former-Member @Adge @cloudcore @Appleblossom @NatureLover

My turn...

Where/how/when do you experience joy, happiness, or euphoria related to your LGBTQIA+ identity?

I came out in the early 90's and attitudes were VERY different back then. Having experienced a great deal of homophobia at the time, both from peers as well as family, and ultimately what I now understand to be homelessness ("couch surfing" wasn't a term used back then) as a result, what brings me joy is being able to share my story without fear in a community such as this. To feel supported at work, and by many in the wider community, to simply be. That is freedom, and that to me is joyous.

Image: Hey Arthur is a cartoon series I also find joyous. In the episode depicted above Mr Ratburn marries his "special someone", and it's the epitome of acceptance and joy.

Looking forward to reading more stories of joy/happiness and euphoria over the this month of Mardi Gras 🌈

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@Former-Member , having many cousins who are part of the rainbow family

Each one is an individual and is important to me

One of my cousin has been beaten up , his jaw broken in many places

And then he experienced domestic violence from his partner

He treats me like a sister which he and his family lived with us for a few years and I am happy to say now that he is in a happier state which makes me happy to know

Ohh hello @RiverSeal , @Former-Member , @Paperdaisy , @Clawde , @eth

Thinking of @Queenie who is not here now

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@Shaz that is both a heart wrenching and loving story you've shared with us, thank you 💜 It sounds like you have a special connection to your cousin, and it's so good to hear that he's now in a better place...what a path to have trodden.

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Yes even though he is single now and has made a name for himself in landscaping gardens and has changed his name , we will always have a special connection @Former-Member

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Just wanted to pop in and say I am an ally of this community too!! 🌈

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