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Starting to struggle

Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

Starting to struggle

I was doing so well, my moods where manageable and now I feel like I'm losing control my anxiety is bad my flashbacks are more present, family are causing lots of stress and controlling me I don't know what to do, it all feels really to overwhelming.

I feel like my whole world is falling apart, my stress levels are high, my moods are always fluctuating, I have random anger outbursts, I'm isolating myself from nearly everyone.

My dad hasn't even really contacted me, I'm really upset, I feel like he doesn't care or even wants to give me a call to see how I am. His wife is really controlling and she tends to judge me. They want me to go to Christmas with them and I don't even want to see them.

I find this time of year is triggering.

Am safe

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

Re: Starting to struggle

Hi @BPDSurvivor @BlueBay @Shaz51 @afterhours @Snowie @Judi9877 @Faith-and-Hope @Jacques @TAB @Adge @Eve7 @Zoe7 @outlander @jem80 @oceangirl @Dec @NatureLover @greenpea @Hams @tyme @Peregrinefalcon @hanami @maddison - happy new year to you all,

had 3 hospital admissions already this year because of my MH, med change now. Struggling still but I’m getting there, hoping to get into a DBT course.

Family stuff is hard at home. But I’m getting there.

I’ll be around for abit longer tonight

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

Re: Starting to struggle

Hi @BPDSurvivor @BlueBay @Shaz51 @afterhours @Snowie @Judi9877 @Faith-and-Hope @Jacques @TAB @Adge @Eve7 @Zoe7 @outlander @jem80 @oceangirl @Dec @NatureLover @greenpea @Hams @tyme @Peregrinefalcon @hanami @maddison - hope you have been well.

Life is hard, my mental health is not doing so well, I’ve lost a family member to cancer, had the funeral and I’m really just not coping and I’m feeling pretty flat and still trying to process it.

My health isn’t good either, it’s not very good, my heart rate is playing up but I’m managing it.

im safe.

hope to hear back from you❤️

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tymeModerator

Re: Starting to struggle

Hi there @Fluttershy1 ,

Sorry to hear it is so tough. It feels like it's been a while since we last spoke.

You have been so brave to reach out tonight. I hear how hard it is for you right now.

Please know you do not have to be alone in all this. Do you still have your pets?

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

Re: Starting to struggle

@tyme - I’ve got teddy, got my bunnies and have been keeping to myself.

im stuck feeling lost

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

Re: Starting to struggle

Hi @tyme - are you about?

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

Re: Starting to struggle

Hey @MDT

how are you

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

Re: Starting to struggle

Hi @tyme @Shaz51 @Snowie how are you

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: Starting to struggle

Hi @Fluttershy1

Day started of ok, not to good now. Just over it.

How are you going? How has your day been?

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

Re: Starting to struggle

@Snowie - not so good, not doing so well, I wanna just run and hide, my MH is not doing so good.

im not happy at all.
losing a loved one is hard, had the funeral last week and I’m finding it hard

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tymeModerator

Re: Starting to struggle

I’m so sorry to hear tha @Fluttershy1 .

Please look after yourself. Give your pets a hug.

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