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Mindful Mondays

Mindful Mondays

As we approach the new year, we will be starting a ‘Mindful Monday’ activity to help increase our awareness of feelings and emotions, how these impact us, and build up our self care resources.

Everyone is welcome to join in- whether this is your first time practising mindfulness, something you practise regularly, or something you have tried in past that you might be interested to do again. We heard from many discussions on the forums that mindfulness has been an important part of many people's recovery- we hope to build on this with this regular activity!

You can also choose your level of participation- do what feels right for you!

Below is some more information to help you get a sense of what this weekly activity is all about, and how it will work on the forums 🙂

How will this work?

Each Monday a SANE Staff member, Community Guide, or member of the Forums Community will set a mindfulness activity for those who wish to participate. Check back in throughout the week to let us all know how it went, and how it felt for you.

What is mindfulness?

Mindfulness is the quality of being present in the moment and fully engaged with whatever it is we are doing. I really love the picture below, because it helps visually show what a mindful moment looks like:

You can read more about Mindfulness here via headspace: https://www.headspace.com/mindfulness/mindfulness-101

What's the benefits for mental health and wellbeing?

Mindfulness has been shown to:

  • Decrease stress and anxiety
  • Decrease feelings such as sadness and anger
  • Increase focus
  • Reduce pain
  • Improve sleep
  • And so many more!

What will the Mindful Monday activity look like?

Mindfulness, like a muscle, takes time for us to exercise and build. What we will be doing is providing some small and easy-to-engage-with activities that can help you build mindfulness into your wellbeing activities.

You can also modify the activities to suit you!

You might like to try the mindful attention awareness scale (MAAS) to gauge where you sit in terms of mindfulness and how you could potentially get more out of these activities!
https://ppc.sas.upenn.edu/sites/default/files/mindfulnessscale.pdf

How is this different to meditation?

Meditation is mindful but it's broader and takes us beyond our minds. Mindfulness is a form of meditation, but it doesn't have to be meditative, meaning you can incorporate it more easily into any aspect of your everyday life. The important aspect of mindfulness is being in the moment.

Acknowledging the experiences that can make mindfulness harder for us to engage with:

We would like to acknowledge that mindfulness is not for everyone and can feel distressing for people living with a history of trauma. We invite you to participate in this if you feel comfortable to, and take from it what you like. You know you and what works for you best

Some helpful things to remember when practicing mindfulness is to exercise your right to choose and only do what feels right for you, take breaks, and make an external anchor point, such as a sound instead of the internal world, if that is too overwhelming for you. Sometimes opening your eyes and focusing on an external object can be helpful. You can find more information about this here https://davidtreleaven.com/

Want to be tagged in the Mindful Moments activities as they are posted?

Mindful Monday will start on January 10th 2022. If you would like to get involved and want to be tagged in new Mindful Monday activities, click the "support" button below.

So many of our community members already have amazing mindfulness activity ideas, and we invite you to lead an activity! Let us know at team@saneforums.org or tag us in this thread to let us know if you would like to lead a mindfulness activity- we will make a roster so that everyone can have a turn sharing their favourite mindfulness practices 🙂

I look forward to sharing, learning and practising mindfulness together as a community 🙂

Edit; Here is a list of the previous Mindful Monday activities (click the link to jump to the activity):

1. Nature or found object mandala

2. Mindfulness Jar

3. Puzzles

4. Origami

5. A focus on breath

6. Mindfulness of the senses

7. Noticing the body

8. Music

9. 'Sit Spot' in Nature

10. Stone Stacking

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Re: Mindful Mondays: New activity every Monday

Was interested a little in those things as a kid @Codex1 @Emelia8 but since being a grown up, been too busy and not had spare brain power. Sorry to be boring, but mostly trying to relax or get things done.

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Thank you @Paperdaisy , @Daisydreamer

For the reminder, I used to do lots of jigsaw puzzles until a couple of years ago , used to do a 500 piece in a weekend

I have done up to 2000 pieces jigsaw puzzles,

@Codex1 , @Emelia8 , I don't do crossword puzzles

@Appleblossom , @Peri , @Faith-and-Hope , @Judi9877

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Oooo! Jigsaw puzzles! Love them! @Paperdaisy !

I've got a question though. Once you've completed a puzzle, do you generally just pack it up for another say? Do you frame it? do you give it away?

I love the process of completing puzzles, but I really don't know what to do with the final product, esp when it is a 5000 piece puzzle! Hence I later moved on to 3D puzzles, and lately, this has transitioned to lego.

Also, sudoku - yes, please!

crosswords - no, thank you!

word searches - yes, indeed!

logic puzzles - yes!

tyme

@Shaz51 @Appleblossom @Emelia8 @Codex1

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@tyme , @Paperdaisy

Mum and I have hundreds of puzzles

Mum started first , she does them , leaves it finished for a couple of days and then puts in back in a bag in the puzzle box and she marks the date on it , some has dates on from 30 years ago , her favourites she keeps and does them again

Some she has given away to the op shop

One of our customers has framed the 3 puzzles of the " outback series " looks soo nice on the wall

Need to have lots of walls @tyme , @Former-Member

I have done ones with no boarders

@Appleblossom , @Emelia8 , @Codex1 , @Faith-and-Hope

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Dating them is a beautiful idea @Shaz51. There is history in that for whoever uses them in the future 💜

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Yes @Former-Member , dating them is a great idea. I should do that with my lego. I've kept all the boxes so I can redo them.

Thanks for the tip @Shaz51 ! Also, i'd love to have a wall of them... but as you said, I'd need many walls.

tyme

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Could not do that with my Legos @tyme

Between my step children and the children I looked after through day care at home

Legos did not have a chance of staying together but they had years and years of enjoyment and we all spent hours playing with them

@Daisydreamer , @Former-Member

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I never grew up with many jigsaws around and mostly chipped in with other people's. Its not been a problem for me. I am hoping my grandson visits soon and can play with the toys and puzzles we still have left over from my kids. Otherwise they go to waste.

Dropped a few hints today. I think they are allergic to coming over the Westgate bridge. Suggested I was still available for help when he complained he was busy looking after little boy. They just have to come off their high horse. Any way I had a lovely 3 hours with him today ... the biggest hits with me, were him learning to take peel off orange and sorting through nuts and seeds as he fed walnuts to the chickens ... My son had his own 'wins' with him.

Still praying that being open, patient, mindful, making small effective contributions, noticing the clouds etc, will increase regularity of contact.

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Hi @Shaz51 @Daisydreamer @tyme @Appleblossom @Former-Member and everyone here. I’m glad to see so much interest in this discussion thread!

I personally aren’t a fan of jigsaw puzzles- I’m too impatient with them unfortunately! - but I do love the pictures that are produced for them, especially those of animals and scenes! I think there are some puzzles that I would like to see converted into cross stitch designs for me to stitch but alas, doesn’t happen so I miss out.

As for Lego, over the past 2 years I’ve purchased a bit of it in the Classic range to play with but I’m yet to get around to actually using it. I think I got carried away with the whole Lego Masters TV show that was on Channel 9 and decided I must get some to play with. I think my first adult Lego kit was a Harry Potter train kit that I purchased in Target at the Christmas toy sale back in June many years ago which is still in its box ready to put together. I’ve often thought of selling it but my housemate and best friend won’t let me as she’d love to have it instead since she’s a big fan of Harry Potter stuff and buys the lego in that specific range. She and I both have the Hedwig Owl kit each but it’s yet to be played with. Isn’t it funny how a kids toy can be considered cool for an adult?

I’m off to go and do some knitting to help me work through some stress that’s happening in my life at the moment so I’ll say goodbye for now! I find that knitting helps calm me down and I can focus on just being in the present with the knitting doing wonders for my anxiety and other mental health issues. Right now, my Crazy Blanket is calling my name waiting to be worked on!

Take care!

Judi9877☺️💐🧶

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Mindful Monday Activity for the 31st of January: Origami

Origami is the Japanese art of paper folding!

Origami is a form of a focused attention meditation, a category of meditation that trains the mind on an object. It is an activity that has been associated with mindfulness because it brings focus and awareness to shapes and the feelings of textures and creases – and slows us down.

For this week, I thought I would share my favourite origami piece to fold: a heart.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muc6JrzdJmo

What you need:

  • A square piece of paper!

If you do not have a square piece of paper, you can make it out of an A4 sheet using these instructions

I personally find origami to be really relaxing, though challenging (in a good way!). For those who have never done origami, it can definitely become a frustrating and confusing process.

The art of mindful origami is about how you approach the process of folding, taking thoughtful and careful steps, making sure you are aware of your own senses and feelings as you do it.

Here are some things to think about to be more mindful when you do origami:

  • Slow down: it’s okay to pause and think about how to do the next fold before folding.
  • Enjoy the paper: take time to listen to the sound of the paper moving (or the music in the video if you prefer!) and appreciate the feel of the paper as you fold it.
  • Practice acceptance: it’s okay to make a mistake when folding, and for the final piece to look a bit different to the video. Mindfulness is all about taking the time out to be aware of what we are doing ‘in the moment’, without judgment or expectation.

There are so many other origami pieces to try if you enjoy this activity! Let me know how you go 😊

@Judi9877 @Appleblossom @Codex1 @Gwynn @Anastasia @NatureLover @Daisydreamer @tyme @Snowie @Former-Member @BPDSurvivor @Clawde @Shaz51 @Bow @Emelia8 @StuF @BlueBay @pinklollipop15 @Fluttershy1 @Ma60 @Spirit_Healer @BlueTrane @Jynx @mantaray @Krishna @mmarks1 @Jorge @AussieRecharger @Everan @Dimity @nony @Paperdaisy @Former-Member

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