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3 Books that have made an impact

3 Books that have made an impact

Hey there forumites!

As we ease into those long summer days during the holiday period, the online peer support team have been discussing books we’ve been reading that have made a lasting impact. We thought why not share our love of all things books with the community by sharing recommendations for books that have changed you in some way.

We’d love to hear from the community on the books that have moved you, be they self-help, non-fiction, poetry anthologies, the choices are endless, which is why we thought we’d limit it to a central theme – 3 books that moved you – and why (optional).

📚 I’ll kick things off with 3 books that moved me, and why:


  1. One hundred Years of Dirt, by Rick Morton
    Within this memoir the author takes us on his journey of survival and ultimately towards regaining his mental health. This book grabbed me right out the gate – Rick Morton (award winning Australian journalist) takes us down his journey of intergenerational trauma and poverty, whilst at the same time celebrates the love of his family. A relatively short read, but one that certainly left its mark.

  2. Miss America By Day: Lessons Learned From Ultimate Betrayals and Unconditional Love, by Marilyn Van Derbur
    **Trigger warning** – this is the story of a former Miss America, who through her healing process, overcame 13 years of intrafamilial sexual abuse and took her story to the world to share with others who have walked the same path. It is a very tough read in parts, but it’s ultimately a story of resilience and achievement. Moving, raw and left an indelible mark.

  3. Wherever You Go, There You Are, by Jon Kabat-Zinn
    In a particularly dark period, this book was life-saving, and life giving. Within its pages, Kabat-Zinn introduces the reader to the practice of mindfulness and in doing so, shares hope for living in the present moment, with all the highs and lows that may bring. Big tick!

Now over to you – which 3 books have left a mark on you, and if you care to share, we’d love to hear why.

Tagging a few of my fellow online peer support team and community members who might be keen to share their top 3 with the community:
@Paperdaisy @cloudcore @Former-Member @Daisydreamer @Shaz51 @ShiningStar @Bow @BlueBay @Appleblossom @Gwynn @HenryX @AussieRecharger @MDT @BPDSurvivor @Judi9877 @Snowie @Anastasia @petrichor @Clawde @nony @Lani @chibam @wellwellwellnez

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Was just scrolling down her feed @Former-Member , lots of nuggets of gold there! Lots about writers block too.

i haven't written anything for a whole, but feeling a little more inspired after this thread conversation. Maybe I'll do some more soon. May even look at getting that book 🙂

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So glad it's providing the inspo you need to get back into it. You all are inspiring me too

I might need to purchase that book myself, hello personal Santa Claus

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I think my New Years resolution will be to read more books and that will please my Psychologist as he’s been at me to set some goals.

Whem I caught public transport to work I’d read a book a week but my recent ECT hasn’t helped with reading, Interesting that @Bow has had similar experiences

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Um started this before then got lost on internet looking for book title
.. okay it was Mayor of Casterbridge ..
Also rate Penguin Australian Short Stories ., some of them had me seeing stuff like on tv .. same with Robbery under Arms just so well written


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Just reading on the abc website Stan Grant's recommendation of John Williams' "Stoner" (published 1965) which I feel will be right up my alley for 2022 (Chinese Year of the Water Tiger): once I get my hands on a copy from library.

From the 2014 New York Times review

“In his extreme youth Stoner had thought of love as an absolute state of being to which, if one were lucky, one might find access; in his maturity he had decided it was the heaven of a false religion, toward which one ought to gaze with an amused disbelief, a gently familiar contempt, and an embarrassed nostalgia. Now in his middle age he began to know that it was neither a state of grace nor an illusion; he saw it as a human act of becoming, a condition that was invented and modified moment by moment and day by day, by the will and the intelligence and the heart.”

Two slim novels I read when I was attending a college back in 1987 were quiet gentle stories that left an impression in ways I am still unfolding:

Tirral Lirra by the River - Jessica Anderson

A Month in the Country - J. L. Carr

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Really love this thread @Former-Member

Some of the books others have mentioned I have also read & some have inspired me to keep in mind for future reading.

I am often drawn to autobiographies/memoirs or ones that would be categorised in self help section. I very rarely read actually b/c I find it hard to concentrate or have tired eyes but have found audible really suitable for me after trying it.

So these are 3 books that came to mind for me…

1. Into the Wild - by Jon Krakauer

“In April 1992, a young man from a well-to-do family hitchhiked to Alaska and walked alone into the wilderness north of Mt McKinley. His name was Christopher Johnson McCandless. He had given $25,000 in savings to charity, abandoned his car and most of his possessions, burnt all the cash in his wallet, and invented a new life for himself . . .”

Found this journey incredibly brave, inspiring and insightful at a time I myself went out to nature on a solo journey for my own healing purposes.

2.The Gifts of Imperfection - Your guide to a wholehearted life by Brene Brown

First time hearing of Brene Brown while I discovered Art Therapy & this book was a beautiful blend of embracing my inner creative while using strategies to help drop my perfectionistic tendencies that trip me up. Love every book Brene Brown has ever written!

3. Big Magic - Creative living beyond fear by Elizabeth Gilbert
A very easy and manageable read which I got through with delight. Continued my journey to embrace my innate creativity and enjoy the process. Reminded me why I need to create and how much it impacts my life.

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Hi there @Eve7, that sounds like a great idea. Having achievable goals that you enjoy means you'll have a better chance of achieving them too.

Re. trouble reading after ect, have you tried audiobooks? I've heard some people swear by them, but then others who really enjoy the practice of page turning. Sometimes my concentration goes on a walkabout so I might try an audiobook myself

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Hi @TAB, just did a little Google to discover that this book spans Australian short stories from 1859 to 1988, which sounds like a really clever compilation. I wonder what our collective national voice sounds like from first publication till now 🧐

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@Jo-anneJoy these are some thoughtful and beautiful recommendations, thank you I've just spent the past little while down the Goodreads rabbit hole, which is much like purusing a bookshop, with the exception that its every book ever published from the comfort of your own home!

I hadn't heard of Tirra Lirra by the River, and felt remiss that I hadn't as it's referred to as an Australian classic. It sounds like a great take on selfhood, and A Month in the Country, again another classic unknown to me!

Really enjoying discovering not only new reads, but also the shared humanity in the enjoyment of reading, thank you @Jo-anneJoy

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