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Surgery in three weeks

janedoe2Senior Contributor23 Sept 2016, 5:44 pm AEST

Surgery in three weeks

I've been contacted a few days ago by the hospital. I've been on the waiting list for just under 12 months. I have gallstones and am having my gallbladder out in three weeks. I have been very nervous which I imagine is normal under the circumstances. I am trying not to overthink the risks involved and am doing the positive thinking necessary. I do have a sensitivity to stress and am a little concerned my mental health will be pushed.
Anyone have some advise?

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In response to: Surgery in three weeks

CherryBombSenior Contributor23 Sept 2016, 6:41 pm AEST

Re: Surgery in three weeks

It's completely understandable that you're feeling stressed about going to hospital. And I can see why you're concerned about how this will impact on your mental health.

It's great that you're thinking ahead to curb well. My suggestion would be to try and minimise any other stresses in your life that you can. For instance, if you a stressful job, perhaps taking some time off could be handy. Do things that help to decrease stress - get back to basics: eat well, get enough sleep, exercise, and connect with others who can give the support that you need.

This is a time where self-care is really important. Do you have self-care activities that you do? It doesn't have to be a structured or costly activity either. Simple things that ease stress can be good. For instance, before I started work today, I went for a walk and then sat in the sun drinking a cup of tea.

In response to: Surgery in three weeks

GothgirlCasual Contributor23 Sept 2016, 7:34 pm AEST

Re: Surgery in three weeks

Hi Janedoe2

It is normal to be nervous, anxious and even being concerned for your mental health as the time gets closer and even for recovery.

As someone who has had their gallbladder removed; you will feel better when it's removed.

I am glad you are finally able to have your gallbladder removed and wish you a speedy recovery!

In response to: Surgery in three weeks

Fancy_PantsSenior Contributor16 Oct 2016, 11:42 am AEDT

Re: Surgery in three weeks

Hi @janedoe2,

Have you had the operation yet? How are you?

In response to: Surgery in three weeks

janedoe2Senior Contributor16 Oct 2016, 11:46 am AEDT

Re: Surgery in three weeks

Friday was op. All successful. Stress levels have been manageable and I have great support from my partner. Thanks for asking how I went.

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