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Topic Tuesday // Alcohol // Tuesday 23rd November, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Topic Tuesday // Alcohol // Tuesday 23rd November, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Hi SANE Community,

This fortnight we will be having a discussion about alcohol with our special guest Hello Sunday Morning

Why Alcohol?

We are noticing here on the SANE forums there is a continuing theme around alcohol use, with many of our valued members expressing their concern around their use of alcohol as well as a desire to perhaps cut down or stop completely, but not knowing how to do that.

This week we have partnered with our friends at Hello Sunday morning to discuss strategies to cut down and manage alcohol use in a hope to have a better understanding of our relationship with alcohol and how to be the one in control, rather than letting alcohol control us.

Who is Hello Sunday Morning?

Hello Sunday Morning is a health service with an aim to “change the world’s relationship with alcohol, One Sunday at a time!” 1 in 20 Australians see drinking as a problem and that’s why Hello Sunday Morning is supporting people through the development of their ‘daybreak app’ who want to abstain, cut back or establish a better relationship with alcohol.

This will be an open discussion with a representative of the Hello Sunday Morning team so our users can ask questions and hopefully find some support if they are looking to change their relationship with alcohol. As always, peer support workers will be in the background to share their experience and ensure everyone is safe and supported. This is a space for us all to share and learn from each other, please remember to be respectful, safe and anonymous.

Please join us here on Tuesday the 23rd of November 2021 from 7:00pm-8:30pm AEST to follow this conversation.


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Re: Topic Tuesday // Alcohol // Tuesday 23rd November, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Wow, these are some great resources!

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Alcohol // Tuesday 23rd November, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

My experience, a long time ago was to abstain from drinking alcohol while in National Service {early 70's} I knew that the one way I would get into much strife was to allow myself to drink alcohol Now, I will have a drink with friends about once a month and abstain the rest of the time, mainly because of possible conflict with medication

Cheers @HenryX

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Alcohol // Tuesday 23rd November, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Awww @Shaz51 , understandable.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Alcohol // Tuesday 23rd November, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

@TAB @Shaz51 @BPDSurvivor Does @Sunflower2021 post answer your questions about moderation? You may have to scroll back...😊

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Alcohol // Tuesday 23rd November, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Hope all is OK @Shaz51

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Alcohol // Tuesday 23rd November, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Question 4

On the forums we are seeing people using alcohol as a coping strategy for stress and anxiety. Do you have any suggestions around coming at this from a strengths based approach?

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Alcohol // Tuesday 23rd November, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Hope you are OK @Shaz51💝

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Alcohol // Tuesday 23rd November, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Thank you for sharing @HenryX😊

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Alcohol // Tuesday 23rd November, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

@Paperdaisy we have found that people use alcohol to numb the bad feelings but it also numbs good feelings. Long term it can impact other domains in someone’s life, including relationships, finances and work. Often ongoing stress becomes really problematic because we can start to feel out of control of our time and lives - we are constantly in a state of responding to things, rather than being able to plan for how we want our day to be. Alcohol can be something that we use to control our mood and how we feel, but we know there are real down-sides to this as alcohol is a depressant.

One way to look at managing this is in terms of replacement behaviours. One thing that can really help is to structure your day in a way that ensures you are managing whatever stress comes up. It might be helpful to consider:

  • Morning exercise (boot camp or even walking to work/early morning bike ride).

  • Ensuring you are drinking water and eating regular and nutritious meals (to avoid sugar highs and lows and

    dehydration which can make stress response feel even worse in the first few weeks of reducing or

    abstaining from alcohol).

  • Some kind of exercise at lunch, such as a run or 20 minute walk.

  • Something at the end of your day which gives a good sense of closure to your day - whether that is some

    cheese and olives while having a non-alcoholic beer, or something that you enjoy and reduces stress (eg.

    listening to a podcast or your favourite music on the way home from work).

  • Listening to some mindfulness recordings at points of the day - sounds silly but it is a really good way to shift

    away from feeling frazzled and stressed, and towards feeling more focused and switched on (we recommend apps like Headspace and Smiling Mind which are both free to download).

    It might be helpful to read this article about the links between stress, anxiety and alcohol:

    https://www.hellosundaymorning.org/2017/10/10/stress-anxiety-drinking/?utm_referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.googl e.com.au%2F

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Alcohol // Tuesday 23rd November, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

@Former-Member , @Paperdaisy , @BPDSurvivor , @HenryX , @TAB

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