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The Butterfly Room- ED support

The Butterfly Room- ED support

I have for a long time felt very alone on the forums with my battle with my eating disorder. I didn't really see anyone else talking about EDs, at least I didn't see any threads, maybe a missed them? Perhaps it's the deep shame that we feel and the feelings of being dismissed and misunderstood.

But in the last couple of days I seen a couple of conversations started, you are so brave for sharing some of your story...

I wondered if it would be helpful to create a space to mutually support each other? Yes we have all have different types of eating disorders and our struggles are so complex and individual, but there is something in being able to come together and have real understanding. To break the silence of the noise that is inside our heads.

I know that we need to be mindful of the language that we use around posting about EDs, perhaps @Daisydreamer could provide some guideline?

I have for a while longed to be part of a real life support group, I want that mutual understanding.,, perhaps this could be a start? just tagging @Eden1919 @BlueBay

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Hi @Eden1919 I am super sorry to hear that the struggle is so hard right now. That's rough, not being able to sleep. I find when I'm unable to sleep it also makes other stuff harder too - which sometimes can be a helpful reminder, like telling myself that the reason it feels even harder than usual to use skills or strategies is because I'm so tired, not because they don't work or because I'm not trying hard enough or something.

Sitting with you, here if you wanna chat 🤗💜

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@Jynx thanks i tried calling the butterfly foundation but it was useless they just told me a bunch of stuff i already knew that wasnt helpful. i just keep getting so triggered by anything and everything and idk how to make it stop. i am really not able to manage this at all and no one is really listening like they all just tell me to lose weight and that i am fat and like obviously i already know that ugh idk how i am supposed to manage this.

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Have you tried to call Eating Disorders Victoria (EDV)

https://www.eatingdisorders.org.au/

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@Eden1919 wrote:

they all just tell me to lose weight and that i am fat and like obviously i already know that ugh idk how i am supposed to manage this.


@Eden1919 that is terrible!! I am sorry to hear they say that to you!

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Hey @Eden1919 how are you travelling today? Really does sound like things are super rough for you at the moment, and I’m really sorry about that.

curious what professional supports you have? If your up to sharing?

Im really sorry people have said those things to you, a lot of people really just do not understand and can do so much damage with the words that they speak.

when my ED voice is really loud and relentless I have to work hard at distracting myself…. And I do that in a variety of ways, painting, exercise, gardening, colouring in and being with people.

wishing you well today @Eden1919

Hey @NatureLover @BlueBay too 🙂

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Hi @Bow @NatureLover cold and rainy here. Inside day.

Hope today is a better day for you @Eden1919

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Hey @BlueBay 👋

how are you doing today?

sun is shining here today but it is very windy.

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Not bad but not great either @Bow !!

trying to stay busy

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thanks again everyone I am still really struggling today i want to cry because of how much i ate and i just i really am not dealing with this at all everything is just too much i have looked into eating disorders victoria but i dont think they have anything for me and i also dont live in vic so that doesnt help either. i am really not sure what to do anymore. i dont think there really is anything left that can help anymore.

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Oh @Eden1919 I'm sorry you feel so hopeless 😞

I'm also sorry that eating disorder inpatient clinics are shut down due to Covid 😞

@Bow

@BlueBay

@Jynx

@Former-Member

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