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The magic of tidying

The magic of tidying

Decluttering and minimising. Taking control of house and garden, nurturing body and soul. I've read Marie Kondo and read a little on a related Swedish method and feel inspired. I've been a borderline hoarder and lived with depression for too long and want to take the initiative. Has anyone done this? Or is there anyone who'd like to try with me?

I've sorted my books and uni notes. I've decided to sell some furniture when lockdown lifts. But the other papers and STUFF in the house and the jungle outside have me beaten atm. Some mutual encouragement and support is the only thing that's going to get me through. I know I'll have to face some decisions like "will I ever use that fabric stash" or "how many books in the TBR ,pile is too many" or "where do I start in the kitchen". Boxing isn't the answer, it was a temporary reprieve.

It's going to be a contest between my commitment to getting sorted and the looming possibility of having to move and downsize for my health. Having control of my space will be a win in either the old space or a new one.

Setting goals. Celebrating achievements. Sharing life hacks. Is anyone on board?

Dimity.

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ohhhh what`s happened my @Dimity

have you come to a little hic up my friend xxx

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sitting with you @Dimity 😍

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@Dimity

Not sure exactly what you are dealing with. Wish you were feeling better. Wish you did not go, but only you can tell whether this is a beneficial place for you.

This is a good thread, and periodically I get inspired into the magic of tidying. My house and garden is a little better than it was. Tidy organised spots, and spots that still need more work. I have organised 2 sets of music from people who had passed, but I have new collection of music which I need shelving and ready access to, ahhh what to do ... will figure it eventually. Otherwise I am in a gentle muddle... approximately clean and tidy ...

Thanks for being there Dim

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hello @Appleblossom

yes @Dimity , this is a great thread , sending you hugs , my mr shaz is feeling a bit overwhelmed with everything here at the moment

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HI there @Dimity ,

Go gentle. You are such a valuable member.

It sounds tough right now. An email is flying your way shortly. Hope you receive it.

Kindest, tyme

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@Dimity

Without this thread my bedroom would still be a giant mess instead of a sanctuary.

Please don’t give up.

Meggle

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Hi @Dimity

Just checking in with you.

I am thinking of you and hope things get easier.

much affection,

Meggle

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@Dimity wrote:

In my decluttering journey I'm confronting a lot of past and continuing trauma, and trying to support someone close with a shared history. At the moment I feel like walking away from this thread and the forums in general.


I'm concerned for you, @Dimity - I feel like you've become my friend and I want what's best for you.

Would it be good to take a break from the forums or this thread for a while? Would that reduce pressure on you?

I hope you won't leave entirely, but I accept it of course, if it's what's good for you. Thank you for your friendship and support ❤️ I will be sending wishes for you, whether you leave or not.

Hugs and wishes for what you need 💚

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Hello @Oaktree @Dimity @NatureLover @tyme @Shaz51 am doing some more cleaning. Today I plan to tackle the laundry. There are clothes about and it looks a mess in there. So that is on my to-do list. I hope you are doing ok Dimity.

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OK guys I have cleaned the laundry, its looking great. That is another task done for today. Went out for a W.A.L.K. earlier and will do another walk this evening. Got blood sugars down. Going to attend a we love mass meditation group today in another hour then read a book

@Dimity @NatureLover @TAB @Oaktree @tyme @Shaz51

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