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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
I feel like my thoughts are out of control they are around SH, am safe but am struggling with the thoughts I have been so stressed the thoughts are just coming back. I don't want to have my addiction to SH again. I want to stay clean.
@Former-Member - am safe
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SnowieSenior Contributor
No you're not hon @Fluttershy1
Somedays are just harder then others.
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
I'll just go @Snowie
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SnowieSenior Contributor
I'm sorry @Fluttershy1
I am struggling today so not much support at the moment.
Do what is best for you.
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
It's not your fault @Snowie, not a good day
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Eve7Senior Contributor
Hey @Fluttershy1 can you make something for Snowie’s birthday please? That might be a good distraction too.
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MDTSenior Contributor
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@MDT - that's good.
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MDTSenior Contributor
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Heyhey.
I know it's hard right now and I know it feels like it's gonna be like this forver but it will and does get better.
It'll take time but it's worth the wait. You'll look back and be so so glad you didn't give up and then you'll think wow I got myself out of that state.
You've come so far don't give up now look at the amount of things you've overcome and the amount of times you've wanted to give up.
Your still here fighting and that's the main thing.
I know life's hard but your tough and can push through anything that life throws at you.
Your all worthy, loved, caring, precious, wanted, needed, beautiful, fighter, strong, kind and so much more.
It's gonna be hard to get through this but with everyone's help yous can get through it.
Giving up will never be the answer to any of your problems. If you give up now then you won't know what the future holds.
You've got your whole life ahead of you and you've got so much more left to do.
You've got this. You have a purpose and if you can't find that purpose let this be it.
Your hearts beating make that your purpose.
You've all got this stay strong and keep fighting🥺❤️
@MDT @Eve7 @Snowie @BlueBay @BPDSurvivor @Former-Member @outlander @NatureLover @Lee82 @Zoe7 @Bellarose75 @Shaz51 @cloudcore @TideisTurning @Former-Member @Former-Member @Former-Member @Former-Member @Peregrinefalcon
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MDTSenior Contributor
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