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Memories

Memories

When I was in high school I often didn't pack a lunch. Partly laziness, partly nothing much there to eat. I'd chuck a couple of apples in my bag and a can of soft drink (which cost 50c back then) and then not eat the apples because bleh. But they were there if I got too hungry.

I was friends with a girl back then and she started noticing I didn't ever bring much food with me. She started out pretending like she wasn't going to eat all her lunch and share hers with me. Eventually she started just packing extra snacks--fruit buns I recall--for me to have. Wednesday's she'd buy her lunch from the canteen and she'd get me a hot chicken wrap. She mothered me a lot back then. She didn't have to, I didn't ask, no one told her to, she was just a really good person.

I think of her often, and I feel very grateful to her. She was always very kind and caring. I remember I started calling her "Mum" as a "joke". But it wasn't really. She took good care of me like mother's are meant to.

It makes me ache to think back on it now.

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Thank you @saltandpepper

Generally once he's asleep he does. Its the thoughts whilst trying to go to sleep 😔

I generally lie with him for a bit (his need) not sure if it's good but he's scared of his own shadow at those times so I talk him through things, happy memories type stuff, things to look forward to

@Emelia8

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Yeah agree @saltandpepper .. go get some choccy.

Nothing major planned today. Domestics .. change sheets and a load of washing.

Also need to clear out my late husbands Ranger ute. Did a deal to sell it on Friday, and it is being picked up tomorrow.

Also want to check my PC again to try again to make it work. It died Friday and wont boot up. Will probably need to get it to repair man tomorrow to fix. Hope its not terminal or I lose everything on it.

Enjoy the peace and quiet while you can @Anastasia

Em

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Ugh that's beautiful @Anastasia far out he's a lucky kid. You can never be sure what's right or wrong, just gotta go with what feels right to you. Poor bugger, wish I could do something to help. Not that he needs it, he's got super mum with him.

How is your other son going?

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Good morning @Clawde 😄🌹💕

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Aw @Emelia8 rough times hey? Sorry to hear about your husband. Must be very difficult having to sort through his things now. Good onya for getting through it and managing to do the domestic chores--I gave that up a long time ago.

Is it a PC or laptop?

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Oh Em,

That's heavy 😔 but also a step in the right direction.

I'm sorry you had to make that decision but look at you!

You're amazing 💕 Such an inspiration 💕

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Hi my love hope you have a lovely day XXXXX love from your @Clawde

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Thanks @saltandpepper @Anastasia 💔

Its a PC

Thank you @Clawde I wish the same for you. 🌹

Em

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Should still be able to get all the info off the hard drive @Emelia8 take it in to a pc repair store and if they can't get it going they should be able to transfer the data to a new hard drive. PC's always a good chance to salvage what's on there 🙂

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Thank you @saltandpepper 🙏

My other son...

He's ok. He's suffered through it all. I've paid lots of money for therapy for him as well so he can talk. He was right there the first night when my boy was rushed to hospital and in ER all through the night. He took a while to "come good" still struggles at times with what goes on here but all in all he's doing well.

He has a job he loves and people there that want to see him go places. I'm proud of him. He includes his brother when it's possible. Love my boys 🙏

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