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Memories

Memories

When I was in high school I often didn't pack a lunch. Partly laziness, partly nothing much there to eat. I'd chuck a couple of apples in my bag and a can of soft drink (which cost 50c back then) and then not eat the apples because bleh. But they were there if I got too hungry.

I was friends with a girl back then and she started noticing I didn't ever bring much food with me. She started out pretending like she wasn't going to eat all her lunch and share hers with me. Eventually she started just packing extra snacks--fruit buns I recall--for me to have. Wednesday's she'd buy her lunch from the canteen and she'd get me a hot chicken wrap. She mothered me a lot back then. She didn't have to, I didn't ask, no one told her to, she was just a really good person.

I think of her often, and I feel very grateful to her. She was always very kind and caring. I remember I started calling her "Mum" as a "joke". But it wasn't really. She took good care of me like mother's are meant to.

It makes me ache to think back on it now.

@BlueBay @TAB @MDT @Appleblossom @Bow @Powderfinger @NatureLover

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No words @saltandpepper just love and hugs 💔😭

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@Anastasia @The-red-centaur Thank you both for the hugs. Very much down for the count today.

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Thinking of you today @saltandpepper 😔🌹

And hoping your brother is okay too.

Hi @Anastasia @The-red-centaur @BlueBay @NatureLover

Emelia

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oh my friend @saltandpepper sending you big warm hugs love and strength

i am so sorry this happened to your brother, pls take care today

xxxooo

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Thinking of you buddy 🤗

@saltandpepper

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@saltandpepper

I have some friends who openly admit that they come to visit me specifically so they don't feel so bad about how messy their own houses are.

warm hugs, chicken soup etc... maybe even sing "soft kitty" if you're a very good boy.

xoxo

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If burglers came to mine, they leave thinking the place has already been trashed. No word of a lie!!!!

@SJT63 @saltandpepper

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Thanks @Emelia8 @BlueBay it's hard to know with my brother. It's only been in recent years that he's started letting his guard down with me. Still feels the need to protect me even today. I know he confides in his wife though and she's been a rock for him. I hope he's OK too. He's had a rough year with everything mentally, had a bit of a break down earlier in the year. Which I didn't know about til after the fact. He keeps it all very close to the vest.

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@Anastasia i know your house isn't like mine or @SJT63 Funny you should mention the burglar thing @Anastasia I'm pretty sure this actually happened to me. Came home one day to find the fly screen ripped off the window and some greasy finger prints on the glass trying to push the window up. They'd tried to get into the spare room which has turned into my apocalyptic wasteland where work projects go to die. I think they must have looked in the window and thought whatever junk I had in there wasn't worth the hassle haha slob life for the win.

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Glad to see you back @Anastasia

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