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Memories

Memories

When I was in high school I often didn't pack a lunch. Partly laziness, partly nothing much there to eat. I'd chuck a couple of apples in my bag and a can of soft drink (which cost 50c back then) and then not eat the apples because bleh. But they were there if I got too hungry.

I was friends with a girl back then and she started noticing I didn't ever bring much food with me. She started out pretending like she wasn't going to eat all her lunch and share hers with me. Eventually she started just packing extra snacks--fruit buns I recall--for me to have. Wednesday's she'd buy her lunch from the canteen and she'd get me a hot chicken wrap. She mothered me a lot back then. She didn't have to, I didn't ask, no one told her to, she was just a really good person.

I think of her often, and I feel very grateful to her. She was always very kind and caring. I remember I started calling her "Mum" as a "joke". But it wasn't really. She took good care of me like mother's are meant to.

It makes me ache to think back on it now.

@BlueBay @TAB @MDT @Appleblossom @Bow @Powderfinger @NatureLover

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So good of them to accommodate the kids @TAB

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people used to smoke not just in pubs but in offices, on buses and in planes lolo @saltandpepper

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@BlueBay Yeah of course, it's hard though. Still feel so wounded by everything. I guess cause it's what I focus on in therapy, kinda keeps it all fresh. I guess also, it's only been in recent years that I've felt capable of talking about it all. I want to try and be more open about everything--I think it will be beneficial in the long run. So when stuff comes up I'm going to try and write about it here. If I can.

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Save a few bucks there with a bit of passive smoking hey @TAB

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Hell yeah @saltandpepper okay I remember in 1977 pouch of Drum (large) was only one size then, was $1.35 lol think its over $100 now

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Yes @saltandpepper Definitely use this here as your platform to vent, chat, whatever you want to write. I will read it and support you.

It is so hard isn't it. I'm so worked up this morning, i have so much anxiety i need to release all my sh't in my head to this new psychologist. Poor guy, he's not going to know what's hit him when he sees me!!! LOL

I think when things are fresh in our minds it's hard to see the positives, the good stuff we can do.

I understand how hard it is to open up and talk to.

Hugs xx

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Far out @TAB yeah I remember when a pouch was around the $50 mark and I thought that was insane. But oh Port Royal, oh so good. Ugh. This is making me want a smoke really bad @TAB

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Haha well @BlueBay you've gotta get your moneys worth at your appointment hey? And hey I think they kind of expect it anyway.

Thanks for the support @BlueBay I really appreciate it. Feels nice.

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Sorry @saltandpepper I did wonder. Bank was another one or cherry borkum riff for the pipe in winter lol okay no more mentioning tobacco

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Nah it's all good @TAB I just try and hold off as much as I can. But yeah, fu*k. Craving it now. Veeeery badly. Ok, I'm just gonna go have one

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