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Memories

Memories

When I was in high school I often didn't pack a lunch. Partly laziness, partly nothing much there to eat. I'd chuck a couple of apples in my bag and a can of soft drink (which cost 50c back then) and then not eat the apples because bleh. But they were there if I got too hungry.

I was friends with a girl back then and she started noticing I didn't ever bring much food with me. She started out pretending like she wasn't going to eat all her lunch and share hers with me. Eventually she started just packing extra snacks--fruit buns I recall--for me to have. Wednesday's she'd buy her lunch from the canteen and she'd get me a hot chicken wrap. She mothered me a lot back then. She didn't have to, I didn't ask, no one told her to, she was just a really good person.

I think of her often, and I feel very grateful to her. She was always very kind and caring. I remember I started calling her "Mum" as a "joke". But it wasn't really. She took good care of me like mother's are meant to.

It makes me ache to think back on it now.

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How was your day out @Anastasia?

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Yeah was ok thanks @saltandpepper

How bout you? Are you good?

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Yeah? What'd you get up to @Anastasia

all good here thanks. Kept busy today

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Back out on the bike @saltandpepper

Checked out a new shop.

Glad you're doing well ☺️

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Sounds like a good day. Kids ok? @Anastasia

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@saltandpepper
Was a non eventful day. I feel deflated tonight. Like it was only Friday 2 minutes ago. Stressing over tomorrow already.
Kids are good thank you for asking ☺️

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Why what's happening tomorrow? Are you going in to work? @Anastasia

Glad the boys are doing ok

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Yes working. Not sure why I'm stressing. Probably because I wasn't productive last week so I have a big project I have to finish and lots of little ones overdue. (Only overdue on my own timeline)

Then I have Tuesday off.

I have no idea how my boy will be and I need to knuckle in so it's the unknown of what will be. Silly stressing over it. It will be what it will be.

@saltandpepper

Weekend was a bit disapointing too in that my place still is a bomb and I just never seem to have enough time. Sorry for whinging.

I should be happy, were all alive!

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OK OK @Anastasia the "overdue" little things, that's bound to happen. I'm in awe you're even heading into work tomorrow. You can't expect to be on top of everything right now. I'm sure you've been so focused and busy on managing everyone else right now you haven't even had a second to process things for yourself.

Is there a way to get some time off work?

And look, yeah, at the end of the day none of those things really matter hey? Ultimately work is just work, the house can be messy, your boys are together, that's all that really matters.

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You're not whinging @Anastasia you've got so much shit going on. Happy to be here and happy to listen

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