@MJG017 yes definitely lesson learned. I will definitely be jamming the seatbelt. I like the way you think 😊
I also have about 100 cd's in storage, containing wedding photos, as the ex and I used to take wedding photos on the weekend. Most of the clients are probably divorced by now, so hopefully no one wants to purchase any more wedding photos. We dissolved the business after I kicked the lazy SOB out.
I have worked out that I have out paid over $15,000 in storage fees so far. So with the help of Life Without Barriers, they found a company that will come to my storage facility and remove my household furniture and belongings and donate them to local charities to assist people that are struggling. Anything that I wish to keep could go to my mum's. But that means I need to cull some of my belongings that are already at my mum's, so I can make room for any boxes that need to be sorted through.
At first I was hesitant because I have really nice solid wooden furniture. And when I got a house. I would need it. But now that I have been told, I was looking at 10 years. And I will be stuffed if I am going to continue to pay for storage for that long.
And it was pointed out to me, that my furniture would probably hold bad memories anyway. And when I thought about it, they were right. So now I am happy to let it all go.
It is going to cost between $600 & $800 for the removalists. And as suggested, I made an appointment with Anglicare Financial Services to apply for a Wyatt Grant to pay for this service. So I attended my financial appointment and was told that the Wyatt Grant would only cover about half, and I will need to come up with the rest.
Because of my background, the counsellor suggested that I apply for housing through the Domestic Violence portal or through Toward Home. She thinks that I would get somewhere to live a lot sooner. Then she advises that I don't get rid of my furniture, as I will be needing it.
It took me months to come to terms with what Life Without Barriers were suggesting and to agree to it. And in a one hour appointment, it has all been turned on its head. And I feel lost again. I really don't want to keep my furniture, as nice as it is. As some not very nice things happened to me from two different partners while I had it. But of course if I did apply for housing through these services, and got one sooner than later, I wouldn't be able to afford to buy any furniture. So now I feel stuck.
I must apologise for my long message, but because of my childhood, I am an over sharer. Lol