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Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

DaisydreamerSenior Contributor16 Feb 2021, 1:17 pm AEDT

Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

Hello to our wonderful Lived Experience forum members and readers 👋

This month we are excited to welcome the President of the Blue Knot Foundation, Cathy Kezelman, as our special guest for Topic Tuesday Live Chat Event on the topic of Trauma. Blue Knot are national leaders in supporting and empowering people who are recovering and healing after complex trauma.

Topic Tuesday will look a bit different this month as we are hosting two discussions back-to-back on the forums with the Blue Knot Foundation.

How will it work?

🔹 From 7:00-8:00pm AEDT, we will start the discussion in the Friends, Family and Carers forum talking on the topic of Understanding Trauma and Supporting Loved Ones (use this link to join the discussion!).

🔹 From 8:00-9:00pm AEDT the conversation will continue here in the Lived Experience Forum talking about Trauma and Recovery.

Trauma and Recovery

Recovery and healing after complex trauma is a personal journey and looks different for each person. The SANE forums community holds a space where many stories of trauma and recovery are shared, including the journeys of each person who is coping with the impact of trauma. This discussion will focus on the impact of trauma for survivors, recovery after trauma, finding trauma informed support services.

Earlier this month we put out a call for questions on the topic of trauma contributing to the planning of this event. We want to extend a huge thank you to the many members who posted questions for this live event- we have done our best to combine key themes and questions! 💙

Please join us here on Tuesday the 23rd of February 2021 from 8:00pm-9:00pm AEDT to follow this conversation.

Want to receive a reminder on the night? Hit the 'Support' button below.

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I'm new here - what is this?

The event runs from 7:00 - 8.00pm AEDT on the 23rd of February in the Friends, Family and Carers forum, and then continues here in the Lived Experience Forum from 8:00 - 9:00pm AEDT. You are welcome to join for one or both of these discussions. Each month we focus on a different topic with the session facilitated by a Community Manager or Moderator, and joined by a Peer Support Worker.

The first post of the thread (this one) will give you an idea of what the topic is and what will be covered.

How do I get involved?

Our text-based event takes place right here! As it is text-based, no software is needed. During the session, to keep up with the latest posts hit the 'refresh' button on your browser for the newest comments (it doesn't automatically update). Keep an eye out for page numbers at the top & bottom of the page, and jump to the highest page number for the most recent post. We recommend using a desktop computer or laptop for the event for overall ease of use .

Throughout the session, the facilitator will post questions for the guest to answer, and you can provide your answer too. Usually the questions will ask for your own experience on the topic. To contribute to the event, just hit the 'reply' button and share your thoughts. No answers are right or wrong, and everyone is welcome to get involved!

What time does this event start in my timezone?

AEDT - 8:00pm
AEST - 7:00pm
ACDT - 7:30pm
ACST - 6:30pm
WST - 5:00pm

If you have any questions about how to use the Forums, check out our Guides.

Topic Tuesday discussions can cover some heavy topics. If you are feeling distress during this live discussion, there are support options available to you. You can start a new discussion on the forums and talk to other members, contact the SANE Help Centre on 1800 18 7263, or find crisis support options here.

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In response to: Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

Shaz51Senior Contributor23 Feb 2021, 9:00 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

It still catches me too @Bunniekins , @Daisydreamer

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chibamSenior Contributor23 Feb 2021, 9:00 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

@Last-Lament wrote:
@chibam Yes, and even more so when the person is PART of those support services with access to ALL your records and information.

Past me can relate to you incredibly well.

I was very lucky in that I managed to be pronounced "cured" and let out of therapy after my therapist was done with me; but that was a nightmarish 7 years while it lasted.

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DaisydreamerSenior Contributor23 Feb 2021, 9:01 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

I am aware that for so many of us, we are still living every day with the ongoing impact of trauma. Each and every person here has courageously shared stories and experiences of the impact of complex trauma on relationships, mental health and wellbeing, among many other areas of life

I can see there are so many questions here, that unfortunately we don't have time tonight to talk to. But even though we can't address them all tonight, there are places where you can find some answers, or continue to share and learn with peers.

Blue Knot have many trusted resources and fact sheets on their website for supporters, and for survivors. Many of the quesitons you have asked have responses on the Blue Knot site. Additionally, you can contact the Blue Knot Helpline (9-5, 7 days a week).

There have also been some questions about domestic violence or family dynamics, and 1800RESPECT have a great deal of factsheets, and a helpline that is available to you

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destructiveSenior Contributor23 Feb 2021, 9:02 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

Thanks @Daisydreamer @and @Cathyblueknot

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chibamSenior Contributor23 Feb 2021, 9:03 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

@destructive wrote:
Thanks @Daisydreamer @and @Cathyblueknot

Yes! Thank you to our hosts!

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Shaz51Senior Contributor23 Feb 2021, 9:03 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

We are sure sisters my @Bunniekins

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AdgeSenior Contributor23 Feb 2021, 9:04 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

Thanks so much @Cathyblueknot @Daisydreamer @Former-Member

Thanks everyone.

Very helpful, good discussion.

Adge

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DaisydreamerSenior Contributor23 Feb 2021, 9:04 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

Unfortunately we have come to the end of our time tonight.

Thank you to everyone who has been a part of both the conversation here and in the Friends, Family and Carers Forum tonight. These are big topics of conversation, and we are so grateful for your openness and willingness to sit with the heaviness of this topic- it's something so many of us can relate to and your stories will be helping provide validation for all those reading along tonight

A huge thank you to Cathy, you have been such an asset to our community. Your knowledge, insights, and expertise in the area of Complex Trauma has given us new understandings of trauma and recovery. We are so appreciative of your time and generosity in chatting with our forum community tonight.

Please join me in extending a huge thank you to Cathy on behalf of our forum’s community, and to @Former-Member!

Again, please reach out for more information

Stayed tuned for our next Topic Tuesday event in two weeks on the topic of Men’s Mental Health and Peer Support Services.

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destructiveSenior Contributor23 Feb 2021, 9:05 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

And @Former-Member

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Shaz51Senior Contributor23 Feb 2021, 9:05 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Trauma and Recovery// Blue Knot Foundation // Tues 23rd February 2021, 8:00-9:00PM AEDT

Thank you @Daisydreamer , @Cathyblueknot , @Former-Member ❤❤👍:ok_hand:

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