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7 years gone. What started well descended into daily alcohol-fueled rages, constant arguments, surveillance, and verbal abuse. He refuses help, gaslights me, and plays the victim,never taking responsibility. He constantly accuses me of cheating, using rec
I spend an inordinate amount of time playing Words with Friends and recently met a guy who has become my partner. The problem is how do I know if he’s genuine or a romance scammer in disguise? All I can go on is my instinct he’s being truthful
Hello! I recently got diagnosed with a bipolar/manic depressive discorder and have been struggling to say the least. My partner has been a great support during these times, but I don't want him to feel responsible for helping me mana
I've recently been going through a breakup with my ex of two years, who decided to end things with me last month. The reason? He wanted time and space to get himself together, as he's going through his parents divorce and searching for a house to rent wit
I’ve been with my partner for 2.5yrs, been living together for almost 2yrs. He (now 40) stepped in as a step father for my 3 kids and was an amazing step dad to them, taught them things, took them places, loved them and cared for them without a question o
I have AuDHD and have a lot of trouble letting things go. It’s not just the social justice aspect of being neurospicy, I also strongly feel being disrespected and end up spending far too much time trying to dissect why it happened and what I can do t
I have known a guy for 4 weeks, he is a nice down to earth caring guy. Things where going great we where talking heaps we expressed that we liked each other. We did up becoming very close one night. But suddenly he sends me a message saying that he l
I lost the love of my life. My soul is devastated. He and I are both struggling with mental health from past trumas. It's hard not having him in my life. We text every day and night but that's it. He said he doesn't love me. I know I have to find myself b
My Aunty just passed in Feb, My parents and my sister have been rekindling relationships as we have missed out years after a big family blow up. My aunty opened up connections once she found she was sick. We got 2 wonderful years of rehealing and spending
i am thinking of leaving the forums due to mania but i love it here so have asked for a change of portfolio which is hard too because i love greenpea. has anyone else felt similar feelings? need advise before greenpea goes.
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