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Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

At the end of each year, many people stop to reflect on the year that has passed and share their hopes for the year to come. For many people, 2020 has been a big year during the Covid-19 pandemic and we have seen conversations across the forums throughout the year discussing the impact in all areas of life; mental health and wellbeing, connection, employment, ways of living, and ways of coping.

As the year draws to a close, we will be taking time to reflect on the year as a whole from the biggest challenges we faced, to the new growth and learnings, the places we found joy and connection, and the strategies we will take with us into the new year.

We will be joined by one of our amazing Sane Moderators @Former-Member, who many of you may know from moderating the online community for two and a half years! @Former-Member will be sharing their reflections from this year and the impact of Covid-19 on their life in Melbourne.

Please join us on the 15th of December from 7:00pm-8:30pm AEDT as we discuss reflections on a dynamic year. We are combining Topic Tuesday's from both the Lived Experience Forum and the Friends, Families and Carers Forum this month. We look forward to hearing all of your insights!

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I'm new here - what is this?

The event runs from 7pm - 8.30pm AEDT on the 15th of December. Each month we focus on a different topic, with the session facilitated by a Community Manager or Moderator.

The first post of the thread (this one) will give you an idea of what the topic is and what will be covered.

How do I get involved?

Our text-based event takes place right here! As it is text-based, no software is needed. During the session, to keep up with the latest posts hit the 'refresh' button on your browser for the newest comments (it doesn't automatically update). Keep an eye out for page numbers at the top & bottom of the page, and jump to the highest page number for the most recent post. We recommend using a desktop computer or laptop for the event for overall ease of use .

Throughout the session, the facilitator will post questions for you to answer, usually asking for your own experience on the topic. To contribute to the event, just hit the 'reply' button and share your thoughts. No answers are right or wrong, and everyone is welcome to get involved!

What time does this event start in my timezone?

  • AEDT 7-8:30PM
  • AEST- 7pm
  • ACDT- 6:30pm
  • ACST- 5:30pm
  • WST- 4pm

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Topic Tuesday discussions can cover some heavy topics. If you are feeling distress during this live discussion, there are support options available to you. You can start a new discussion on the forums and talk to other members, contact the SANE Help Centre on 1800 18 7263, or find crisis support options here.

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In response to: Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

Definitely @TideisTurning . I posted earlier about my view on the restrictions but I should mention that I was stuck at my sisters house from August 2 when lockdown 2 came on so for 17 weeks, I didn't live in my place I was renting. I was literally paying for storage! Add to this with the restrictions, I had several psychotic episodes because of the restrictions and the curfew thing. That was really scary for me yet I refused to get medical help for fear of the expensive fines in place.

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

@BlueBay I'm so sorry. I can't inagine your pain 💙💙

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

Oh I can't go for Christmas because of my "supposed germs from hodpital"

im sngry I'm sorry

@TideisTurning

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

Agree @Former-Member I also tried to create my own routines. We had a restructure at work, and then the building got damaged in a storm, so there was a lot of coming and going from the building, and still a lot of uncertainty re jobs.

I also have family interstate and overseas, and that made me anxious and sad.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

@Judi9877, that's really rough! It just goes to show your resilience and strength being able to make it through all of that with everything going on. I hope things are a little better and starting to look up now?

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

There have been so many challenges this year and I am reminded of just how important that saying "together but apart" has been, which I think is one thing this community does so well 💙

@Former-Member you mentioned that through the challenges and hardest times of this year, you learned new ways of coping. This is something we’ve heard from some members in the Sane forums too, that there are new things they learnt about themselves and their lives during COVID-19.


What are the most important lessons you learnt this year?

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

Wow @frog that is so much change to process. I'm so sorry to hear border closures would have meant so much separation and worry for you too 🌻

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

No need to apologise @BlueBay. It's perfectly ok to be angry and frustrated in this situation. I feel like anyone would be!

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

I feel for you @BlueBay

I'm also wondering about next year.

Trying not to assume anying and remain hopeful.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Covid-19 and reflecting on the dynamic times of 2020 // Tues 15th December, 7-8:30PM AEDT

I feel like there are probably so many lessons from this year, it's been a crash course in managing distress with limited external resources!

My biggest lesson from this year was that it’s normal and part of life to have negative emotions (especially in a year like this). Grief, heaviness, anger, frustration are so normal at different times. I learnt more than I ever have that having some acceptance of this can really help me to cope during difficult times. I will say though this is a work in progress, it's can be hard work to extend some acceptance to those really painful emotions!

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