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My big news... I think????

My big news... I think????

@Maggie @SJT63 @Anastasia

I really cannot remember what made me think of this idea. I am sure I will remember at some stage. It was simply just some thoughts I was having. For many years, I have fixed broken things. China and ceramics mainly. It was on the odd occassion, and not really looking for something to fix, it just came along, it was broken and I really wanted to fix it. I have fixed some electricals too, nothing that needs rewiring at all. I never asked any money for it, I just did it.

I am very patient, I like to stick with something and find a solution to the problem/s, I do not give up too easily and I actually enjoy it alot. This is in regards to mending broken items/ electricals I am talking about.

I (think) I was just sitting having some time out and thinking about things. It was quite sudden that this idea started forming in my head. It was a strange experience, it was just kind of flowing, so I went with it.

I decided to put a note up in a local group I am on. I put my idea out there to see if there would be any interest in it?

I certainly was not ready for what came back! I had 39 people comment! It was insane. I had never had that before. I was quite overwhelmed with the response. I was thinking maybe one or two comments perhaps, but I got 39! I was so very much supported with the idea from everyone and everyone was so positive about it. I live in a small regional town and it certainly means a lot when you have the locals support you in a venture.

Anyway, moving along, it happened all so fast. Next thing I know, that night I am creating a place for the locals to go to, to come and see me regarding my idea.

I think right about now is the time I should tell you about my idea. I had the idea that I was going to start mending things. Broken items, small electricals and so on. This is the idea I put out in the group I am in. I do mainly focus on materials though, such as china and ceramics. I will do glass as well. It is my main focus I should say. A couple of months ago, I came across a book called Kintsugi. I actually want to buy it because I was enjoying reading it.

Kintsugi is the Japanese art that teaches that broken objects are not something to hide, but to display with pride.

It is an actualy art form that repairs broken objects, and then infuses the broken reapired parts with gold. (Not real gold)

Items that have been broken and are sentimental do not have to be thrown out and are most of time able to be mended.

By mending broken items, it gives me the chance to use art as therapy and is part of what helps my healing process through difficult and painful times.
I call it art, because it is art to me.
So the following day after this has happened, I am up and ready to go, just like that. People had a place to go, I had started a mini side business and I was off and racing. This all happened in less than 24 hours! That was the 17th November.

It is still the 26th for me, the 27th for most of you at this time. In the last ten days I have had my first two customers.
Customer 1 is coming to pick her item up tomorrow and customer 2, I went and picked up her items yesterday. I have had to stem the flow sadly but I am offering to put people on the waiting list for when jobs are coming to a close and I can take more on.
If that is not enough, I have also been asked if I do workshops. I have responded that it will be something I look into later next year, so some are asking to be put on the email list I have offered, so when I am ready I cant put out some emails to gauge what interest there is.
I really have had no time to connect with myself about all of this happening. It was so quick and all systems go when it happened. This last week has been immensely challenging and the work itself is very time consuming and you do have to problem solve. One of the great things about this though is people are not in any great hurry.
What I have started is really changing people's lives and my own. I actually still cannot believe it is real. To abide by Sanes rules, I cannot post the name of my business. It does have great meaning, but I cannot share it sadly! I need to slow down so that I can figure out what I am doing and to catch up with how I am feeling.
I am attaching some photos of what I am currently foxing and my next job! The Stein is what is being picked up tomorrow. The vintage oak chairs are my next job. There are three. The one chair that is still intact is going to be used to restore the two other chairs. I am also working on another ceramic job too, but that is a freebie, and for a friend. Other than that I have put all jobs on hold, until I cant catch up with things, as there is so much else to do other than this. I am trying to balance things more. Vintage oak chairsI will send a photo of the stein tomorrow when it is complete.
So, that is my big news. I probably have not written this how I would have wanted to. I am just truly tired.
I havn't really had anyone to share this with. Of course, I have told a few people. It has been in passing though, so no real long conversations have been able to happen. It's all good though. I still think my story is somehow a bit magical, so I am really just sharing the magic. Ramble. xx

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@Powderfinger You are sounding like you are enjoying your art very much. I share that same joy in painting mandalas on almost anything that stays still , long enough to paint.

Take care of yourself.

@Anastasia 👋🏻👋🏻💜💜

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@Maggie

It somewhat takes me away from the horrible things on my mind. I'm feeling angry that no one takes the time to understand why something is important to me. Everyone is always in a hurry. I'm not a hurried person. Some days I just want to block everyone out, tell them to leave me in peace and today is a me day. I feel angry when people need my time, but aren't willing to take the time on what's important to me.

I've seen many mandalas, never given it a go myself. I imagine they are quite peaceful to do.

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@Powderfinger I understand what you mean. Is it an invisible feeling ? Invisible when you have a need, but not when others need ,you kind of thing.

I hope your ‘ me’ day was a good one.

I find doing mandalas kind of meditative. Very peaceful. I’m teaching a lady who is 89. She’s loving it.

I had a thought yesterday. You might like to share your art on Re: Craft Corner.Number 4 attempt .its a thread where many of us share our different creations. It inspires others sometimes too. Just a thought, no pressure though.

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@Maggie

I'm.really unsure if it is an invisible feeling. I need more time to decide that. I'm still trying to get used to the fact that feeling angry is OK, that it doesn't make me a bad person for feeling angry or that I'm being selfish thinking about myself.

I didn't mean a me day was yesterday, I meant including that when telling people to back off. Some days, I just want to be quiet, not necessarily alone but just left to do my own thing without having to go anywhere, think real hard or organise something.

I'm not sure what I feel. To he only thing j know right now is that it is taking time to work on myself and try understand what's happening with me. I guess there are many times I don't feel safe in talking about my deeper feelings with people. I still have work to do around that. There has been an incredible amount if damage and trauma round that. Shame in the people that dud cruel things in a position of my own vulnerability, exploring that and having no real remorse.

I hear you about mandalas. It's one if those ageless arts that can be done by just about anyone over the age of 8 up to 100. I bet it's a joy to teach someone.

I actually didn't know that thread was here. I will check it out. Thank you.

Hope you are doing well. ♥️🌷

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@Powderfinger, how are you going on the chairs?

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@Gwynn

It isn't going. I have had a major setback mentally. Fallen off the horse. Really struggling to want to get back up. Not doing well, nor in a good place. I'm still trying but if I can't, I can't.

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Fair enough, you can't. I'm sorry to hear that you've been going so poorly. Glad to hear you are still trying. Maybe some rest and self care will get you back to a better place.

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@Gwynn

I'm sorry for the late reply. I did not see this.

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@Gwynn @Maggie @Anastasia @SJT63

This is the only occasional thing I'm doing that assists as much as it can.

My long (ish) update on the vintage chairs.

It's been very challenging but enjoyable. I love a challenge when it comes to this and it's awesome when you find a solution that works.

The chairs are roughly 70 - 80 years old. 20-30 years away of being antiques. Came up against a few issues because of the age. The dowel pieces used in the joints were super long with a very deep curved design from top to bottom. You'd really have to hunt around to get dowel pieces as long as them.

Also the glue they used in those days was applied very liberally and the dowel was so dry. Taking the chair apart, meant that there were quite a lot of times I would need to hammer out the joints as much as possible, till I could see the dowel, and unfortunately have to saw it off, leaving the remaining dowel in there. As you can imagine the holes are deep. About double the size of a standard dowel plug. It was either that or risk splitting the wood, which is a more time consuming fix and to be avoided as much as possible.

I've drilled out all the joints of the dowel left behind now, ready for brand spanking new dowel. It's also been a time warp to see the screws of the day in those times. The threads are not much different but the heads are. I'm still thinking about whether I'm going to try get a remake of them for authenticity purposes or if I'm going to go something more current I'll decide later when the chairs are being put back together.

I also have been doing the chairs on my own. I had a sidekick for this job, but they had to bail after day one, so it is just me since then. I finished up at 7 pm on Wednesday night as I also had errands to run and an appt. I always love it when I can get to work again on the chairs.

Finally, they are now ready to go for the sanding, finishing and varnishing!!!!!

Here are the three chairs I started with to make them into two and the current progress.

The last photo is the sanding I have started on Thursday. what showed up through the sanding/stripping back process is such a beautiful oak. If they were mine, I'd keep that natural colour but the client wants a dark stained oak so can't do that.

The photos will come through when they are approved. Other than all ,everything is just too much.

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@Powderfinger The chains are looking good.

I hope you get a feeling of satisfaction after all the work you put in.

Take care today. ❣️❣️

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