Need to vent

Hello, Dear @BlueBay

It is disappointing when we compare ourselves to others and feel unworthy. Even the fact that others are giving support, or trying to, seems to put all “the others” at a different level to ourselves. From this, we often tend to consider ourselves less than “the others” who are offering assistance to us. We can tend, in those difficult times, to only think about the present moment, and the apparent difference between ourselves and “everyone else”. These are often the times when we are receiving and less able to offer and give. At these times, we can easily feel and believe that everyone else is ok, but we are not.

This is definitely a mis-perception of the reality. We are all at different stages and positions on the wheel of life and each in turn experiences the highs and lows of life and everything in between. We depend on each other at various times and to varying degrees, but we also offer each other and share mutual support at other times.

You, at the present time, may be the one receiving support from others as, in similar fashion, you offer and give support at other times. Just as there are times when we each have the opportunity of generously offering and providing support to others, there are other times when we each can graciously receive support, comfort and assurance from others. We all go through different stages of surplus that we can share with and give to others, times of equilibrium, when we share with others in reciprocal support and encouragement, and there are times when we need more support than we are able to offer.

We generously offer and give when we can and graciously receive and accept when we need.

This is the wheel of life on which we all turn and take turns.

Please remember, that it is as worthy to receive and accept graciously, the support, comfort, encouragement and reassurance offered by others, as we would like others to do when we, in our turn, have the opportunity to generously offer and give nurturing support, comfort, encouragement and reassurance to others during their difficult times.

With My Very Best Wishes

@HenryX

Omg I'm in a foul mood with everyone at home

I'm exhausted

I want to cry but can't

I want to scream but csnt

damn

@HenryX @Bow @Sophia1 @Emelia8 @Shaz51 @MDT @BPDSurvivor @Snowie @oceangirl

@HenryX I will have to read your reply again. It's too much for me right now. Sorry. But I will reply.

With you, @BlueBay .

It's okay to feel whatever you feel. You are not judged by the way you feel.

Hugs, BPDSurvivor

Good morning @BlueBay

I hope that you managed to have some sleep and a good rest at the very least.

You have had so much happening at once in a short space of time..

Your body and mind are still trying to catch up..

you might have been in auto pilot mode..

are you familiar with that term..

emotions come to the surface and we can feel them days after the event.

how are you feeling today?

You are still showing us how brave you are by opening up and reaching out so that you can have extra support on here...

Sophia 💜

ps.. do not feel guilty if your mind is not allowing you to understand what we have said..

that is just overload of emotion filling your mind...fog brain and confusion are what I call it...it will go..

Hi my friends @Sophia1 @BPDSurvivor @HenryX @Bow @Emelia8 @Shaz51 @oceangirl @Snowie and others ive missed

I'm annoyed. A friend just called me to say she has a new job. An admin job. Just the perfect job I would have loved.
so now all these shit feelings are here

why is everything so hard

Sometimes I just don't want to be here anymore

nowhere / just gone

😢😢

@BlueBay

I'm sorry that your friend's news is bringing up some really awful feelings for you Our crafty minds can really take these as opportunities to validate all of our darkest thoughts and feelings about oursevles, but remember, it is no reflection on you or your significant value.

I can see there are so many here that feel lucky to experience that value, and we are all sitting right by your side in these feelings.

I don't know anymore

I'm losing hope thst anything good will come

it's hard wirk

im tired

@Former-Member

I feel that @BlueBay

I will hold that hope for you today, and I am sitting with you

If you need to reach out for further support today, please do.

Lifeline: 13 11 14 or Crisis Chat

Suicide call back service: 1300 659 467 or Online Counselling

I just wanted to reach out and say "I feel your pain"

I to am struggling hoping for things to get better. You just need to hold on to hope. I've been in ths pit before and managed to drag myself through all the mud and shit to gan a normal life. It's not easy and I now it feels like all hope is lost, but I promise you it's not, there are better days ahead even though at the moment its hard to see