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Raising Awareness of BPD - Flipping the Script

Raising Awareness of BPD - Flipping the Script

Hi Everyone!


BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) is a highly misunderstood and stigmatised condition. For those who don't know, since 2011, each year 1st to 7th October is BPD AWARENESS WEEK.

This year 2020, the campaign was titled "Flipping the Script" to help people see the 'flip-side' to BPD and change the narrative on BPD. See more at BPDawareness.

As a continuation of raising awareness of BPD from tonight's Topic Tuesday// BPD Awareness– Flipping the script with a special guest from Spectrum// Tues 6th October,7 pm-8:30pm AEDT , I'm wondering if anyone would kindly share their experiences of BPD?

Over the years, I have found it quite challenging to find a social network of people with experiences of BPD. Hence I am hoping to create a network of people and a place where we can 'hang out', share resources, support each other, hear each other out, etc.


@Judi9877 @BlueBay @outlander @Determined @Shaz51 and anyone else.

I'd love to hear from you!

Cheers,

BPDSurvivor

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@Janis_J

Welcome to the fold, we are a nice bunch around here so you should feel safe and welcome.

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Hi @Oaktree @Former-Member @Janis_J ,

Hrmmmm.... self compassion. A tricky one indeed. I certainly struggle to have self-compassion for myself. I know the strategies, but I'm yet to find room to have compassion on myself.

Strat 1:

Consider the things you say to yourself. Would you say that to other people? For example, you may say to yourself, "I am absolutely useless and good for nothing." Would you say this directly to someone else?

Strat 2:

Have a picture of you as a child and talk to him/her. How would you speak compassionately to this child? Then find the same compassion for your inner-child.

Strat 3:

Sounds stupid, but talk to yourself using a mirror. Could you honestly say some of the things you say , to yourself?

All can say is give it a go!

BPDSurvivor

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Re: Raising Awareness of BPD - Flipping the Script

@Oaktree , how are you going, my friend?

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Re: Raising Awareness of BPD - Flipping the Script

hello @BPDSurvivor , @Former-Member , @Oaktree , @Former-Member , @BlueBay ow are you going today my friends

it is sunny up here today , wow

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Re: Raising Awareness of BPD - Flipping the Script

Hi @Shaz51 @BPDSurvivor @Former-Member @Former-Member @BlueBay

I am ok, hanging in there!

Meggle

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Re: Raising Awareness of BPD - Flipping the Script

that is good @Oaktree , hope your day was okish

it was sunny here so we caught up on a few jobs and finished at 1-30pm and had some lunch

did a load of washing too

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@Shaz51

The biggest excitement in my day was 5 pieces of KFC for $8 for lunch. I have a cold at the moment and feel lousy so I had an afternoon nap. Just watching tv now. Weather here is grey and miserable.

Meggle

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Re: Raising Awareness of BPD - Flipping the Script

5 pieces of KFC for $8 for lunch-- ohh yumm @Oaktree shame you have a rotten cold my friend , hope you feel better soon

ohh that means we will have rain up here again soon xx

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@Shaz51

How are you? Sounds like you had a productive day.

Meggle

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@Shaz51

Yes it was yummy I get very excited any time I can have KFC but they are generally sooo expensive. Today they started a $8 Tuesday special. Basically you get a choice of one of 4 different buckets;

5 pieces of chicken

10 tenders

18 chicken nuggets

8 wicked wings

It didn't really rain today - just grey and damp and depressing.

Meggle

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