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Struggling

Struggling

I am really really struggling at the moment everything is a mess and I have screwed up badly and I am not coping with uni and I am just hardly functioning at all. It is taking all I have just to keep up with basic hygiene stuff at the moment and despite wanting to get others stuff done badly I just can’t and I don’t know why. I feel completely useless and exhausted and hopeless. I have been agitated all afternoon and it isn’t settling down now certain things are happening which I won’t go into but they are getting intense and idk what to do. Everything is too overwhelming and I am struggling to even take care of myself.

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I am still feeling bad I don’t know what to do and nobody else does either and that is ok but it does get tiring having people just slowly disappear because they feel like they can’t help even though I don’t actually expect that of them. It is like I just want to be able to talk with people about it but instead everyone always wants to fix it instead of just be there to support then they leave because they can’t fix it and they become uncomfortable. Well that makes two of us. Ugh oh well not much I can do about that. It does get lonely though.

there is a lot going on that I can’t talk about right now a lot I wish I could speak about but that I must not utter. I just need to figure it all out slowly.

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Hey, you can always speak on here without fear or judgement.

but only if you feel comfortable

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hi Eden

is it possible that people are trying to "fix" you because they see you under such distress ?

also, are you able to communicate to ask for them to listen ? whether it's your treating team or friends or whoever - my advice would be to clarify what you need them to do.

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@Eden1919

I feel the same and am at uni, with kids etc. I can't cope anymore. Today I was exhausted after 7 hours sleep in three days. And I still can't sleep. Meh.

Im tired.

I can't think of better words. Other than your not alone in how you feel. ❤️

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