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NoOneCasual Contributor
We have struggled my whole life with this horrible condition. Every month for as long as I can remember big gaps in memory. Burn marks cuts etc. Only last 3 years have We started getting help. Started coming to some sort of understanding. But still bad days. Am I only one or othets out tjeir with DID that would like to share tips etc?
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
hello and hugs @BraveOne , @NoOne , @dontrainonme , @MySunrise , @Former-Member , @Fluttershy1
how is everyone tonight xx
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MySunriseSenior Contributor
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Unlonely1Senior Contributor
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NoOneCasual Contributor
Hey thanks for reply. Yes been getting help treatment for 6 years. Still hardly helps. War rages because there mains adults hate each other with a passion fury that surpasses anything natural. I guess early childhood programing. Just at times especially coming back from a trip..It just suxs wish I did not have responsibilities family i could just reset try the next turn at life.
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BraveOneSenior Contributor
@NoOne Yeh I getch ya .... internal war raging... Its so tricky to get along when alters needs and ways vary ... this internal communication is such a big deal to figure out.... so much to learn .... life . responsibilities sux truly ....
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HeiwaNew Contributor
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Hi @Heiwa,
Sorry for the delayed reply we have been kinda absent dealing with stuff.
As a system with over 30 alters we understand the issues of finding balance and healing. We also have some destructive alter that refuse healing, it is difficult to understand why they refuse it but it is interesting to hear from someone who refuses it but doesn't exactly know why. Unfortunately we don't have any real advice on how to help you there. As for your relationship hosts hubby also had trouble and it took an adjustment period and he's still learning but it helped him a little going to a few of our therapy sessions when we were still seeing one and talking about struggles he has with our condition and learning about things to help us in different situations. We hope this helps you a little.
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