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Things are really hard my way I'm struggling I've been very distant from social media so I haven't been on forums much due to my MH being really bad. I just seem to be picking myself up constantly and it's not fun it's exhausting. I've constantly been switching alters, I've been told I have another one so that's making me scared and worried. I am keeping to myself a lot because I'm struggling. I'm trying to get myself stable so I can be better again and that I can do the things I want to do * once Covid is over *
That's great hun. Good night. Have the sweetest of dreams. @Fluttershy1
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Unknown userMember
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Hi @Candydipper, only just found your tag, so sorry your family treated you so bad last night leaving you so sad and alone to fight off dark thoughts and alter shifts. Sounds exhausting, by you put up such a good fight. Really proud of you for reaching out here, couldn't have found better help... and sounds like you eventually got some sleep. How are you this morning? I'm hoping to get out in the sunshine today, maybe garden. Do you have a garden or any pets? Nature hugz me better than most humans. You deserve hugz too. Deep breaths, one day at a time 💗💗💗
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
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Good morning @Lee82
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
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@Former-Member - things are still tough. I really no sure how I feel. I crying
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Lee82Senior Contributor
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Good morning sweetie. Were you able to get some sleep?
@Fluttershy1
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Hope todays better for you @Fluttershy1
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
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@Lee82 - no, Lucy fronted. She didn't want sleep she my bad alter.
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Unknown userMember
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Oh dear, that's not good, but not surprising after last night. You must be exhausted. I need a cuppa (brekky and pills etc) and can't chat atm - by maybe if you grab yourself a cuppa and we can pretend we're sitting together for a bit... in a quaint little European cafe with cobblestone and umbrellas beside a river with tall trees tinkling in the gentle breeze... just for a moment ☕☕🌄🌳💜
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
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@outlander - I'm hoping. Things are really tough at the moment..
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