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Struggling

Fluttershy1Senior Contributor05 Aug 2020, 1:11 am AEST

Struggling

Hi all,

Things are really hard my way I'm struggling I've been very distant from social media so I haven't been on forums much due to my MH being really bad. I just seem to be picking myself up constantly and it's not fun it's exhausting. I've constantly been switching alters, I've been told I have another one so that's making me scared and worried.
I am keeping to myself a lot because I'm struggling.
I'm trying to get myself stable so I can be better again and that I can do the things I want to do * once Covid is over *

I'm sorry that I haven't been around lately

Take care all ❤️🦋

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor17 Oct 2020, 11:02 am AEDT

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@MDT - so I only get 7 hours a week of support workers so I practically don't get one everyday. I have to do things on my own and make things work the way I need them too.

They have tried in the past but they just don't want to know about it. It's annoying.

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor17 Oct 2020, 11:06 am AEDT

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@Zoe7 - they do. I try them several times my coping skills then I just get bored of them....

I wish it could be eaiser than this.

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MDTSenior Contributor17 Oct 2020, 11:42 am AEDT

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I see @Fluttershy1
I'm sorry to hear that. I really am. You are such a kind and caring soul. I think this is worth something and many of us here can see it. If this is a key support then I am happy to be a part of it my friend

What are you going to plan for yourself today ??

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor17 Oct 2020, 11:44 am AEDT

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@MDT - your so kind, you made my day by saying that you would be there for me! I'll be there for you aswell!

probably stay here and just chill?
yourself?

I tend to hold everything in

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MDTSenior Contributor17 Oct 2020, 11:55 am AEDT

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Happy to help @Fluttershy1
It's always good to see you my friend

Yeah I am just chilling playing a pc game and listening to a podcast. I will have to help my sister make her new chair this arvo as that was a condition of me getting her old one lol. I'll see how that goes tthough. I have been feeling a bit dizzy this morning.

I've also been designed a privacy barrier for our deccking as we have lots of spare wood and need to use it up.

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Zoe7Senior Contributor17 Oct 2020, 12:05 pm AEDT

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It sounds like you may need to work on soe new ones @Fluttershy1 Do you hvae a coping box? I find mine very valuable when I am not doing so well.

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor17 Oct 2020, 12:06 pm AEDT

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@MDT - sounds good I guess.
I tend to hold a lot in even my emotions

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MDTSenior Contributor17 Oct 2020, 12:12 pm AEDT

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Sometimes i do that too @Fluttershy1

But I find i need outlets. What outlets work for you?

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor17 Oct 2020, 12:14 pm AEDT

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@MDT - what do you mean by find outlets?

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor17 Oct 2020, 12:15 pm AEDT

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I do have new ones @Zoe7.
do you have any you can share?

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