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Struggling

Fluttershy1Senior Contributor05 Aug 2020, 1:11 am AEST

Struggling

Hi all,

Things are really hard my way I'm struggling I've been very distant from social media so I haven't been on forums much due to my MH being really bad. I just seem to be picking myself up constantly and it's not fun it's exhausting. I've constantly been switching alters, I've been told I have another one so that's making me scared and worried.
I am keeping to myself a lot because I'm struggling.
I'm trying to get myself stable so I can be better again and that I can do the things I want to do * once Covid is over *

I'm sorry that I haven't been around lately

Take care all ❤️🦋

@Former-Member @NatureLover @Snowie @outlander @Maggie @eth

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 12:17 pm AEST

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Hey my friend @MDT ,

how are you?

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MDTSenior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 12:21 pm AEST

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Just having a birthday coffee @Fluttershy1

Watching the world go by

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 1:04 pm AEST

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Good morning @Fluttershy1

Always thinking of you. A walk sounds like a good idea @BPDSurvivor if you can. I'll be thinking of you. Big hugs xxx

Hello everyone 👋

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OwlunarSenior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 2:21 pm AEST

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Hi @Fluttershy1 @BPDSurvivor

I have read a lot about people with BPD having fluctuating emotions - it seems to be their normal - I wonder if any professional ever tells anyone that

It has to be rough - it seems that every time we feel okay something can happen to throw us off balance - and I rhink that's true for many people -

It's not really my day either - sinusitis and hayfever and a windy day that is rather warm - but I am staying inside out of the pollen - torn two ways -

I was pruning my vines yesterday and managed to hack a big piece out of the hedge - it will grow again but I feel a bit unhappy when I see the damage I did in a few minutes

I hope you feel easier soon CandyDipper

Dec

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Lee82Senior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 2:54 pm AEST

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I am here holding your hand @Fluttershy1

❤️❤️

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 5:35 pm AEST

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@Lee82 - I sorry 🥺🥺😭😭

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BPDSurvivorSenior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 7:20 pm AEST

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@Fluttershy1 ,

Dissociation is your body's way of protecting itself.

I want you to know we are here for you.

@Owlunar , BPD can be highly-destablising. It can be a mental torment. On the other hand, it can be very rewarding - it is about knowing how to work with it. I wish their was more help out there for pwBPD. It needs highly-specialised therapy coupled with a comparable therapist for treatments to work. You can't have one without the other.

Hugs,

BPDSurvivor

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor20 Sept 2020, 7:27 pm AEST