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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
Hi all,
I never in my wildest dreams thought I'd be here. In saying that I have had some interactions with some of you and you are all lovely, so thanks for saying hi and making me feel welcome! @Shaz51 @Determined @Maggie @Former-Member @Faith-and-hope @Smc @SoS .
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Emelia8Senior Contributor
Good morning @Anastasia 😄🌺
I notice you were up late overnight. How are you this morning?
Thought I'd bring you an early cuppa and remind you that I'm here for you. I'm hoping you're asleep, in which case the cuppa will stay nice and hot in its thermal mug, until you're ready.
Perhaps you can have a Sunday sleep in? Tiptoeing quietly out the door, and closing it gently behind me.
Catch you later my friend. 🌻🌷
Emelia 💜
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Have read the last 4 pages as was concerned for you, @Anastasia ...is lupus the dreaded diagnosis? And am also concerned for you re the crisis you mentioned in your Worry Room post...please take care 💙
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
I'm sorry to worry you.
Yes lupus. @NatureLover
My bf was in a dangerous situation. It's resolved but the ripple effects are yet to be seen and I am scared for what they will be. I can't divulge sadly, I feel I need to as I am scared but for now that's all I can say. I'm not sure how I feel or am coping right now. I love you for caring enough to stray but you're naughty as I know you shouldn't. Please look after you, you're a special soul Naturelover xxx 🤗💞🌷
Tagging you Em so you have an update hunny. I really don't want you to focus on me. I'll be ok. Let's get you ok, I'm back in your pocket tomorrow and to be hanging out with you whilst you are there for the duration I'm actually can't wait! Hubby will be fine with his friends company. Let's focus on you. I have to ask did you speak to the medical team or breast care nurse about not having males involved? Oh I hope so Em. @Emelia8 🙏🤗💞
Sorry I'm not tagging all of you beautiful people that reached out and sent encouragement I need to tend to my boy. I love you all x
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
@Anastasia All I can say is you have our love and support Hon 💖💖💖
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
I know and I am truly grateful for you all @Zoe7 it got me through the waiting game yesterday and on countless other occasions. Thank you 😊🙏💞
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Eve7Senior Contributor
Support and hugs for you today @Anastasia
❤️🤗❤️
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
Ditto for you @Eve7 🙏🤗💞💖
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Eve7Senior Contributor
I’m off to the movies with friends @Anastasia and I’m actually looking forward to it.
💖💖
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
What a lovely idea @Eve7
What are you seeing, or are you yet to plan?
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Eve7Senior Contributor
The Dry...so hope it’s good @Anastasia
💖
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