Trying to stay Sane

Hi @Anastasia

I am glad you did a self-breast-exam and sorry you found a lump - that must be a really uncomfortable feeling - I can only wish for the best for you - hopefully your bf will be supporting -

And I agree that you need to spend one-on-one time with him - I guess it depends what you want in the long term - but a relationship - it's a long time I have been in one - life is interesting with someone else in it - I am used to being alone now but it did take time to like it

I had migraine when my son was in so much trouble - your headaches sound similar - really blinding pain and nausea - there horrible - you do have a lot on your plate.

Yes - your boy might actually love a change in his routine - he needs a change of place now and again and more so - so do you - spend some time with the boyfriend too

I wish your Dad the best too - I didn't realise your father was ill - I miss a lot when I take time out and rarely read back to find out - a holiday will be great for all of you

Christmas tree time - oh bother - I had forgotten - I have a little Christmas tree my daughter gave me when I was first lving here and when I put it up the first time my cat attacked it - it is small and already had ornaments on it - and I added some - and when Christmas is over I pick it up and put it in the bag - and through all these years it has become dusty - and I decided last Christmas I would go to the Christmas Elves and get another one like it - and blast - COVID changed all our plans

I still have time if there are still Christmas Trees

You have a lot to manage MyBoy - yeah - I hear you tapping away when you have a small amount of time - I think you need time for yourself - I have it in abundance -

Keep well

Dec

Hi lovely @Anastasia

I know you didn't want responses to you edited update, however I couldn't not tap you a note of love and support. You have a great positive attitude to what happened at your Dr's appointment today, this shows how strong your character is - particularly with everything else in your plate. Keep this attitude going for the upcoming tests you have scheduled - you got this!

Love L ❣️❣️

Thank you L,

As have you my friend...

Remember that xxx

@WIP 💞❣️🤗🐕

Hi @Anastasia Just got home from the big city.
Thanks for your update. Sorry to hear you have to go for a mammogram, hoping for good results for you. Good you had a massage.
Hoping for the best for your dad and son too.
You certainly have a lot to cope with and working full time as well. 😮 You deserve a medal.
I hope you were able to rest a bit today.
My shopping trip was a success. Bought some clothes and things from Ikea. Lunch out was yum. 😋

ps., my laundry basket is still full 😬😩

Enjoy your evening. 💖💞

Hello @Former-Member

Your lunch/shopping date sounds lovely, I'm glad youn got yourself some nice clothes and IKEA goodies ❣️

Thank you for your kind words.

The laundry can wait, tomorrow is another day. I'll come back to see your no doubt beautiful pic xxx

@Emelia8 💐🌸❣️

@Owlunar 🌹🌼💞

Thank you xxx

Big hugs @Anastasia

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@Eve7 @outlander ❣️💞🌼💐

Hey hun I know you said no replies but I just wanted to say that I am here for you that I am so very glad you went to the gp. If you feel up to it I would love to hear what they have said about the lump you found?
a week away with your dad sounds perfect babe. I hope you are able to relax and enjoy it.
I was so happy to hear that your boy and his SW put up your Christmas tree. What a great activity to be doing.
anyway hun I probably have already said too much so I will leave it there and just want you to know that I am thinking of you and sending you lots of hugs and love ❤️💙💜💚🧡 @Anastasia