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Trying to stay Sane

Trying to stay Sane

Hi all,

I never in my wildest dreams thought I'd be here. In saying that I have had some interactions with some of you and you are all lovely, so thanks for saying hi and making me feel welcome! @Shaz51 @Determined @Maggie @Former-Member @Faith-and-hope @Smc @SoS .

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So expensive to get your head straight isn't it? Just unnecessary. Just rude. What a rude doctor charging so much. I'm itching to add him to the list too @Anastasia

Fu*k you are a good mum

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Lol, thank you @saltandpepper

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💙 @Anastasia

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@Anastasia I hope today is a much better day 💜

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Hi @Anastasia

I wasn't online y'day & I'm so sorry I wasn't there to help, sounds like it was a doozy of a tIke for both you and your boy. I'm so sorry you went through all of that. @saltandpepper you're a blessing in disguise.......

Wishing today is better for you x

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Thank you @WIP @NatureLover @saltandpepper @Emelia8 @Bow @Shaz51 @Eve7

and all who have visited

Today has been better, there's a lot going on for my boy as to why he can't wake, he is a trooper really, a combo of withdrawals as well as sleep deprivation that will take time to catch up on. I have come to terms with it today - It's my own anxiety that had me melting down for want of a better word yesterday.

It is very difficult for me to be at work and call him and there's no answer for hours. Especially given a morning dose of meds is required. It pushes every button for me. Not because I think he's harmed himself but because of the medication required. Maybe I need to not call...there's something I could work on perhaps? I am sure my therapist would want to know why I call. In truth it is usually because he has an appointment to get to so it is kind of necessary!

I need to be patient, I went to an appointment with him today and the results were incredible so given time then improvement will be visible, but that is what's needed, time. He really is doing everythng in his power to assist in his wellness "journey". I love him so much and I guess I am impatient but that doesn't help the situation.

Thank you for listening, I love you all

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Dear @Anastasia I just happen to be scrolling thru posts and came up ons your most recent one. I'm glad your boy is sleeping, even though it's med related that he is able to - better than no sleep,

right?

please don't beat yourself up about being an anxious Mum - he'll always be your baby boy and need your help in some form of another -

no matter how's large or small. I've spoken often of my Mums support, and I can tell you I'm a lot closer to your age, than your boys. We'll always need our Mum!!! Without my Mum, I prob wouldn't be here chatting with you.

I am delighted thenappt today went well - a step forward! A great thing. I know how hard it is to be patient, try how hard it is for your boy to be patient in trying to get well. Between the two of you, you can do it!!

Love you, L

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You're absolutely right @WIP

I see sometimes the look of defeat cross his face when he takes a step back, oh tears at my heart like no other, so yes patience.

How are you doing gorgeous, are you ok? and little Levi?

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@Anastasia

💜❤️🧡💛💚💛🧡❤️💞

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Hello precious @Eve7

how are you today, are you having an ok day?

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