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Trying to stay Sane

Trying to stay Sane

Hi all,

I never in my wildest dreams thought I'd be here. In saying that I have had some interactions with some of you and you are all lovely, so thanks for saying hi and making me feel welcome! @Shaz51 @Determined @Maggie @Former-Member @Faith-and-hope @Smc @SoS .

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It's lovely to see you sweetheart thank you for saying hi 💗 @outlander

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What a nightmare. At work. He won't pick up the phone. I have a semi trailer load full of urgent work, I can't focus, it's all too much. I really have no idea how much longer I can go on like this. Maybe covid might come and take me out for a break. Sorry to sound morbid but I just cannot see any light nor any way forward. I have invented the wheel to try to help, and re invented it when it didn't work. Please dear God, Universe whatever the f is out there please provide me with some way forward from this black hole I am sliding further into as each day passes and we go leaping backwards...

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Hey @Anastasia, it sounds like a really difficult situation you've been trying to navigate which might be starting to become a little overwhelming. In similar situations, I find it realy helps me if I'm able to step back, even just for a moment, and take a breath.

I'd also like to take this chance to acknowledge all that you have done and continue to do for your boy, who is incredibly lucky to have such a caring and dedicated Mum in you.

I hope things improve and you are able to find a way to support both of you. You are just as important, and it's important that you take care of yourself through all of this also. Take care 🌸

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@Anastasia Was wondering how your day was going. What's going on with your son? Have you spoken to him yet?

Sorry it's all getting overwhelming @Anastasia tag me in your post next time so I can be here for you. I've just been loitering around the forums all day. Sending you some big squishy hugs with a pat on the head

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I just came over here to see how your day has been and after reading your post I want to jump through the screen, cook your dinner and give you the biggest ever hug my precious friend @Anastasia

If I could only whisk you away for a moment and wrap you in love....

Take care

💙🤗💙

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Hope everything is ok with your boy @Anastasia

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Awww @Anastasia ... that all sounds quite overwhelming. No wonder you feel like you're living a nightmare right now. You know we are all here for you ... just as you have always been there for all of us many times over @saltandpepper @Eve7 @outlander . Please do not hesitate to post if you need a listening ear or an open heart. Always here for you precious lady. Much love to you.

Emelia 🤗💕

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ohhh hugs @Anastasia , sitting with you my friend xoxo

Hello @Emelia8 , @saltandpepper , @Eve7 , @TideisTurning

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Don't leave me hanging @Anastasia 🙏

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Sorry sweets,I have nothing. Its been a :pile_of_poo: day with him only answering the phone late afternoon. Last night was a shocker.

I was beside myself.

Then came the anger, now he's sooky. I'm exhausted.

He rang pdoc, copped abuse, (add receptionist to your list)

I said go to GP, he's amazing, got some help and hopefully will get some sleep tonight. Cryptic I know but I didn't want to not answer. Thank you for checking on me @saltandpepper

Btw I like your haircut 😉

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