Denv12Senior Contributor
When People Don’t Understand Almost everything.
I wasnt sure where to post this in so I hope you dont mind if I post it here.If it needs to moved to another section,please do.
One type of problem I have encountered over the years are people who say either of these statements:
- ”I don’t understand “,(they are referring to themselves not understanding).
- “That doesnt make sense".
They say it to almost everything.I have a friend who is like that and we also knew another friend,a woman, like that too.They both had their fair share of problems.She passed away recently.He is still alive and active in life. The point is they are unable to process information.That means when people say something to them it wont make sense to them. But,those two people I mentioned both of them could do accounting with ease.My friend is still alive and is a retired accountant.I told him that his problem isnt as bad as he thinks because everything he says makes sense to him when he says anything.I told him when he hears something to say it back to himself or at least think it. He realises how much that helps now..As he has dimentia at times he forgets to say things back to himself.I have yet to hear about people who cant understand anything at all.I wouldnt be surprise if there are people out there like that.They would be living a stressful life for sure.
I would like to ask the staff of this forum if they would please include a discussion area on the forum somewhere so that anyone with that problem can share their experiences of their problems.At least offer them some place to post.They need each other. There needs to be a resource for those people and I hope they can get advice or at least share their problems within these forums.There must be a lot of them out there.I encountered one person within a government department who answered phones.She was in the wrong place.She would have had a hard life as a customer service telephonist. Some of us might know someone who has that problem too. They genuinely need help too. I hope other who know people like that will bring up this topic.
Regards@Denv12.
Update as of July 20th:
Thank you to all of you for your replies.What a relief that you know what I'm talking about.Please get people talking about this where ever you are.Here's something I want to add.One thing I forgot to add is the fact that our brains have to process the information to start with. I remember this from school:
Input - Process - Output.
I think that it sums it up real well.It means our brains take in information from all our senses then the brain processes the information then it comes up with the output. There are some people out there where that processing doesnt work properly. Thats where the three people I mentioned have a problem.I had chiropractors over the years who did muscle testing techniques.They could activate various organs in the body including various parts of the brain,including that part that processes information.As I've had that done I'm glad.I never had the process fault though.Those chiros were trained in school in the USA to learn those techniques as opposed to basic chiro training locally.Kinesiologists(pronounced Kin-easy-oll-oh-gists who do Kin-easy-oll-ohh-gee.) can also activate organs in the torso to get the body organs working better which is a good thing.We all need that.Please share this post with everyone.Hopefully,it will make a difference.Thank you.