Lee71Senior Contributor
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Lee71Senior Contributor
Checking in - roughly 940pm
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@Snowie for you as well
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MDTSenior Contributor
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
@MDT hope the day gets better for you as you go along...
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SnowieSenior Contributor
Sorry to hear @MDT
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Lee71Senior Contributor
I'm sorry you're stressed @NatureLover is there anything I can do ,
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
@Lee71 wrote:I'm sorry you're stressed @NatureLover is there anything I can do ,
You're so lovely, Lee 💙
Thank you for your kind offer. I'm stressed because I've got a routine rental inspection next Wednesday morning, and my house is out of control messy. I've got about 15 hours' work to do before Tuesday - it's a 'remote inspection' done by me using their new technology (more stress). So I want to try and do the inspection on Tuesday.
What I might need you to do is be a bit understanding if I am frantically cleaning on Monday and Tuesday...we'll see. Hopefully it won't be needed....but going by past inspections, the reality is that it might be. Sorry - what with all my MIs, I find I can't manage the house. It's a really tiny house, but that means it's hopelessly cluttered (I've got hoarding disorder too).
I don't cope well with inspections as they intensify my fears of homelessness. I have already started tidying up this morning, by the way...I'm luckily not frozen in fear like usual.
Thanks for listening to all of that! 💙
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover you sure have a lot you're trying to deal with, but I'm sure you will get it done in time.
I used to stress about inspections when I had a house for days prior to it, I have OCD so could never get things just right.
Wish there was something I could do to help, would help you clean if I could, cleaningis my go to when my anxiety is high.
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Lee71Senior Contributor
Will also be very mindful @NatureLover about adding any stress or extra worry on you. Will do whatever it takes to make sure that doesn't happen.
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MDTSenior Contributor
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
You're a really lovely person 💙 Thank you, I know you would help me clean if you could 🙂 @Lee71 Thank you for your encouragement.
@Lee71 wrote:Will also be very mindful @NatureLover about adding any stress or extra worry on you. Will do whatever it takes to make sure that doesn't happen.
You don't add stress, Lee. I like talking to you. Please continue to write how you feel...I think it's good that you have that outlet. Please?
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