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I need lots of hugs at the moment as things are not good ..... the hugs will be happily shared for those who want them too. Virtual hugs are safe and virus free. Lots of hugs for everyone in need of a bit of tender loving care.
Hugs my @Snowie , @outlander , @Emelia8 , @Rose_222
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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@Bunniekins are you talking about self harm?
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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that is what i thought @Snowie
nooooo please my sister @Bunniekins
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Unknown userMember
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Hi there @Bunniekins
I can hear that you're really battling some tough thoughts and strong feelings of guilt at the moment. At times like this, it can be really challenging to manage the urge to SH, but we want you to remember you’re not alone. Would you be open to getting in touch with SCBS or Lifeline for a chat? It’s important you stay safe and if you require urgent assistance please phone 000.
Warmest,
Basil.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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thank you @Former-Member xoxo
@Bunniekins please let me know you are ok my sister xx
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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@Bunniekins I know how strong those urges can be, I know how hard it is to resist. I myself cannot tell you not too because I have already today. But I will say please be safe and reach out for support and help if you need it. You are worth it hun.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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ohhh hugs my @Snowie , sitting with you my friend xxx
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Fallen_Broken_New Contributor
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(((hugs)))
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Bunniekins please dont go.. please stay and talk to us here. Im here for you for as long as you need. I know thr urges are hard to fight but your a strong little pea and can get through this. You dont have to go it alone 💕
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Bunniekins your past doesnt define who you are, who you were isnt who you are now. everyone has things in their past that they regret including me. i often have guilt over some things too and yes it can be crippling, enough to cause a downward spiral and self harm but you are strong and i believe that you will get through this. i know there is probably a darker side to your life before you were diagnosed and so could work on therapies etc but it still doesnt define who you are. I would really love it if we could go for a walk or have a coffee and talk, that would be lovely. You are a good person little pea, the way you speak to people here, the way you help others including offline doesnt reflect a bad person personality very much the opposite.
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