Tough Times

Thank you all for your support it means some much. @Sans911 @Shaz51 @outlander @Zoe7

@Lee82 , where have you gone my love.

The only way you fail anything is if you give up @Lee82 If not for you, if not for your boys then for me. @Lee82 Please let us all know you are safe.

@outlander @Sans911 @Shaz51 @Zoe7

Ok guys I am trying hard not to panic and not blame myself beciase I left Lee mid panic attack but it is really worrying me. Now if she is ok she should be back at her mothers by now it's literally on the same street a few houses down. Honestly if I knew they where meeting there I would never have left, if I knew she would be alone after they left, I would never have left. Last time she was alone in that house she nearly succeeded.

@outlander @Lee82 @Sans911 @Shaz51 @Zoe7 @Former-Member

@Former-Member You are only responsible for yourself Hon - we can support others but unfortunately that is all we can do sometimes. We all hope @Lee82 is okay but as I have said to you both before - looking after ourselves is priority number 1 otherwise we cannot be here for others.

Believe it or not @Zoe7 , your words can back loud and clear when @Lee82 started her panic attack and that is why I step back because I knew I was in not fit state to really support her, that is why I asked for help before stepping back. I am just terrified for our friend and her boys

Hi @Lee82 and @Former-Member,

I can hear that tonight has been a hard night for you both. You both so supportive of one another - this is a wonderful connection to have! However, as @Zoe7 said, you need to look after yourself first before you can look after or support others. Sometimes that may mean taking a bit of space away from the Forums to deal with things. I know it can be distressing when you do not see someone online and you know that they are struggling. Unfortunately, the Forums is a space that can produce such uncertainty as people have the freedom to come and go as they need. In such a scenario, hoping for the best whilst looking after yourself is key! It can also be important to remember that SANE Mods will reach out and keep a watchful and caring eye over members when they are struggling.

@Former-Member @Lee82 I hope that things begin to ease for you both, but please reach out and let us know if you are struggling and need support.

Kindest,

Amour_Et_Psyché

I am very much hearing you @Former-Member and am concerned also. We can only wait and hold ourselves and each other up though while we wait. I am actually super proud of you for stepping away when you did - that is immense growth Hon and despite your concerns you should be so very proud of yourself also ...a wonderful example to all of self-care.

Still holding space here for you @Lee82 - a support when you can is enough