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Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Hi, I have just joined. I have a few mental illnesses, but am especially interested in hearing if there are any diagnosed germophobes or people with hoarding disorder on these forums?

I don't know any germophobes in real life, and would be interested to know how any of you pre-Corona germophobes are doing. Can you find enough sanitiser? If not, what are you using instead? Has your germophobia gone sky-high in this pandemic? Do you find it less or more lonely now that nearly everyone is a self-confessed germophobe?

My germophobia is quite bad - I can't have anyone in my house, and need lots of sanitiser when I go out. E.g. I use it after leaving my house and before I get in the car; again before I touch the steering wheel, again after touching my purse, again before putting my seat belt on, etc. I am struggling to find enough sanitiser. If I run out, I was thinking about diluting some disinfectant and putting it into an old water bottle to take out with me. I had one really bad panic lasting 3 days that was debilitating, due to COVID-19, but after that thankfully my germophobia came back down to normal levels. I guess normal levels are not that great but at least I am used to them!

I am strangely finding it more lonely as a diagnosed germophobe now, and would really like to meet some other germophobes online and hear how you're going. At least I had a friend tell me that I was in a stronger position than him, during this health crisis, as he had trouble remembering to wash his hands, whereas I wash them a hundred times a day already!

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Re: Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Am just popping back @Anastasia as I've just heard that your lockdown has been extended by a month, and am concerned for you and your boy. Sending wishes for protection of both your mental health 💚

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Re: Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

I’m ok for now @NatureLover and thanks for asking.

Working from home today and the sun is shining

🦋🤗🦋

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Re: Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

"OK for now" is good, I hope it continues, @Eve7 .

Working from home means you can go out into the sun in your lunch break 🙂

We are supposed to be having a sunny morning this morning this morning, so if it eventuates I'll be out in it.

I will pop over and catch up with your news now.

Sending 💛

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Re: Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

@Anastasia I read that you had a draining week, and I know you started the week with your tank low 😞 Now you've had this new lockdown news, am concerned for you. Am hoping you can take some time to mentally and physically rest this weekend.

How did your boy react to the lockdown news?

Am sending good, restoring vibes and wishes for what you and your boy need. 💚

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Re: Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Thank you @NatureLover

My boy and I are okish...it's my other son I'm concerned for.

Since the initial lockdown in June his workplace is having them do a week worth of hours in three days and he's beyond exhausted. They aren't paying any overtime and he's running the team for no extra money than the others. He lost it yesterday there and came home deflated, sad and exhausted only to have to go back at 5am today. He's prone to depression and I'm asked him today to talk to them about how he feels. How the long days are affecting him.

He's an extrovert, never alone and the extension news yesterday has tipped him over on the emotional scale.

He is missing my parents, his friends and his own father very much 😔

My heart is very heavy.

I will be taking some time.this weekend to do some energy clearing and limit my time on my phone. I'm not sleeping and I can't focus. I need to dig deep to replenish my cup.

Love to you my friend @NatureLover

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Re: Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

@Anastasia I'm really sorry to hear about your older son's troubles 😞

Do you know if he managed to bring it up at work yesterday? I really hope they give him some relief...


@Anastasia wrote:

My heart is very heavy.

I will be taking some time.this weekend to do some energy clearing and limit my time on my phone. I'm not sleeping and I can't focus. I need to dig deep to replenish my cup.


I'm sorry your heart is burdened and you can't sleep 😞

I really hope these measures help you this weekend.

And I'm glad your younger son is OK after the lockdown announcement.

Sending 💚

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Re: Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Thank you @NatureLover 💛

He did. He doesn't feel that anything will change. I guess time will tell. In the mean time will be watching him closer and being more diligent around asking him how his days was and if he's ok.

How are you coping? Are you ok? Is your neighbour sticking to boundaries and respecting your wishes to refrain from negative dribble?

Always thinking of you dear friend 💚💛🌄☀️🌞💛💚

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Re: Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Dear @Anastasia ,

Good on him for bringing it up at work. I'm sorry though that he thinks nothing will change.


@Anastasia wrote:

Is your neighbour sticking to boundaries and respecting your wishes to refrain from negative dribble?


She is! Actually I felt I should step back from her a bit - still care about her but not her conspiracy views. I was getting too worried about her - she won't apply for the Covid support payments and she's got no money. I was giving her food parcels and money but I felt I should stop that too, unless she asks me.

I'm struggling with SAD and foot pain but otherwise OK, thank you

I hope your weekend with less phone time and with energy clearing helped...I'm not quite sure what energy clearing is but it sounds positive!

Always thinking of you too 💚

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Re: Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Gosh sorry you're SAD and foot pain are giving you grief @NatureLover

I'm bundling you up some sun and love to get you through. Always I'm my thoughts 💚

🌞🌄🔆☀️💛

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Re: Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Thanks so much, dear @Anastasia

But what's this about you posting at around 4am in the morning? You had a bad night? 😞 I'm sorry to see 😞

Sending wishes for you and both your boys 💚

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